 | DELi am having my girlfreind . every 2 or 3 day i have oral sex with my girl freind . that girl licked my penis and sometimes she sips my sperm in her mouth . she also have oral sex with my other two freinds(with my ignorance) in which one is married she doing the same thing with them . but we never have sex with her .
now she is going to be married within 6 months .i am cofused that will it harmful or us in future as she licks the penis of mine and my other two freinds.. if we continue with her then would it harm us in future or in present . i think she wants more sex thats why she is not satisfied with one , when we have sex something is loses from her vagina some sticky sticky white. when i had ask her then she told me that its nothing its a sympton of her arousal . i think that it is some type of disease if it is like that then please suggest us what should we do now ,shall we continue with her or leave that girl.we are also confused bcoz we hugs her and we smooch her so please tell us if we smooch her then it harm us or not. please help us .
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| i have very little facial hair. although 25 i dont shave. please tell me if this is normal. what can i do to grow facial hair?
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| is it necessary to masturbate on a regular basis?what if one dosent masturbate?
Whether to masturbate or not is ones own choice. There are no ill effects of not masturbating, however semen formation continues 24 hours a day and if one is not married the only way the semen can let it self out is through wet dreams or nocturnal emissions. Be ready for the latter and do not get alarmed if it happens.
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| I am getting married in 1 month. I here there are three opening in vagina and penis should be entered in correct slot. please advise.
Also my foreskin is a bit tight how to loosen it.
Shall I use K Y jelly for 1st few intercourses?
The vagina has only one opening and to get further information please meet your doctor who could show you anatomical pictures to give you the right undersanding.
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| I am not able to have intercourse. I lose my erection whenever I try to penetrate. My wife and I have tried going to a sexologist, gynaec, tried medicines etc. but to no avail. The gynaec we visited asked my wife to apply some gel so that the penetration could be easier. Please advise as this has caused a lot of frustration for both of us
You are suffering from premature ejaculation and should consult a psychiatrist who will explain you techniques like the stop start or squeeze method. Also the psychiatrist will be able to prescribe you medications which when taken a few hours before intercourse will delay the ejaculation.
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| Is stenford drug by Himalaya drug comp. will effcetive for recovering from premature Ejaculation. i also used start-stop tech. but does''t get so much improvement.
The stop start method works only when done correctly and the timing is right. You must consult a psychiatrist not only to learn these techniques but also because the psychiatrist can prescribe you medications which when taken few hours before the intercourse, delay the ejaculation. As for the drug you mention please check with the company (not all claims are true).
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| During start of intercourse,at first I get erection but the erection falls after a few minutes.At the time of pierceing the penis it is half erect. Hence I am not able to do sex with a condom. After a few seconds I remove the penis and tie a string at the end of penis so that it remains erected upto the last.Also I sometimes ejaculate halfway during intercourse. Please advice a remedy
Tying a string is dangerous as I remeber seeing a patient who slept off with such a string. The next day he presented with a necrotic penis that required amputation. From your description it seems you have premature ejaculation and require to use the sen set erxercises along with the stop start or squeeze methods. If this does not help meet a psychiatrist as the psychiatrist can prescribe you medications which when taken few hours before the intercourse, either delay or sustain the ejaculation, as the case may be.
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| last year i had selected for gulf. but in the medical test,they told me that you have VDRL POSITIVE(1:2)(VDRL POSITIVE in the undiluted serum only)
but i checked in other labarotary.but they are telling vdrl negative.is it curable? what i want to do?kindly guide me.
VDRL tests is a test that is positive in those who are infected with the syphilis bacteria. This is a sexually transmitted disease and if you are certain that you have never had sex with someone then the test has to ideally be negative. Sometimes these tests come falsely positive for technical reasons and hence when repeated are found negative. Also the dilution factor is important, higher the dilution more the chances of one being positive, in your case the dilution was only 1:2 which is not very significant. Confirm this with your doctor. Once again I repeat, if you have never been exposed to unsafe sex, the chances are that you have no problem, in which case you must stop worrying and look ahead in life.
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| i am getting to excited at the time of having intercourse hence premature ejeculatin ,so can not satisfy my partner.can you suggest some way how i can prolong intercourse.also my size of penis is small,is there any way to enlarge it.
You are suffering from premature ejaculation which is common amongst many a men. This can be easily treated with certain behavioral modifications like the stop-start & the squeeze techniques. Both of these are featured on our site (use our site search engine). If either of the methods do not work then you may get a psychiatrist to prescribe you certain medications that may be taken few hours before anticipated sex. These medications effectively prolong/delay the time before one ejaculates. The size of the penis has nothing to with successful intercourse as only the outer third of the vagina is sensitive to stimulation. No treatment is available for increasing the size of the penis.
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| I have been married last 4 years ago and I am still to have a Child. When me & my wife went for a checkup My wife was absolutely fine and when I took Semen Analysis the result was sperm count:14 million/cc Motility : 50% I was suggested to take Sustanon 250mg Injection once in a month for 4 months After that I tested again and found my Sperm Count to be just 7 million per cc. I am very afraid. Please tell me whether is there any chance to improve the count or can it be improved by any medicine or any natural herbs, vegetables etc., I had a habit of masturbating for the past 10 years once or twice daily. Is there any chance of sterility due to this please clarify? CAN I HAVE A BABY ?
Masturbation has not caused this. This is a separate problem for which no effective cure is available. Since your count is low, it is advisable that you meet a infertility expert and consider artificial inseminization, where the doctor could isolate your good quality sperms and use them for conception.
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| What is uretheral intercourse, and is it safe safe?
There is nothing like urethral intercourse. Intercourse requires the penis to enter an orfice like vagina or anus or in case of oral sex the mouth. Urethra is too small for such a possibility.
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| Hi,
I am a 25 year old male living in India. I have never had sexual intercourse with anybody in my life. I have been masturbating since the age of 15.
Sometimes after masturbating a burning sensation starts to develop at the tip of my penis. It goes away by itself only after I urinate and sometimes after I excrete.
This problem does not occur everytime I masturbate. I have observed that it sometimes occurs on occasions when my penis is not well lubricated. How do I get rid of this problem?
Is there a possiblity that I have contracted some sexual transmitted disease? Or is there a problem with my penis? Is it possible to contract STD or AIDS via masturbation (masturbating alone).
Again I have never had sexual intercourse nor do i indulge in any high risk behaviour.
-KD
A lot of times during masturbation one need not necessarily get the required orgasm. As you yourself understand that inadequate lubrication is one such reason. Also, one need not feel good every time one masturbates. There are various reasons for it -- inadequate excitation, no lubrication and no proper release. You do not have a sexually transmitted disease, but in case you have the doubt and there are signs like infection or prolonged pain, we suggest you see a doctor.
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| what sex myth generaly men have about his organ?
The greatest myth a man has about his organ is the size of the organ. It is generally perceived that the bigger the penis, the greater satisfaction he will get during sexual intercourse.
The other would be that if the organ is bent or slanting in a particular direction, there is a problem.
These two are largely the two most common myths men have on their organ. Well, about sex and sexuality, there are a great many myths!!
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| i have very little facial hair. although 25 i dont shave. please tell me if this is normal. what can i do to grow facial hair?
Facial hair is primarily due to congenital reasons and hormonal factors. If in your family there is a tendency to have less facial hair, you probably would not sport too much of facial hair. At the same time if you are stressed or are going through some great emotional stress, it is possible that it would affect your hair growth. In which case you can see an endocrinologist.
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| REsp sir,
I have a habit of masturbating more than twice a day. Is that going to affect my health? also, pl do tell me how can i get rid of this habit?
If you are comfortable masturbating twice a day, so be it! You will have to stop the moment it becomes too painful or becomes a disturbing/compulsive influence in your life. Masturbation does not affect ones health. But overdoing something to the extent of overtiring yourself will probably make you feel temporarily weak.
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| HI!MY PROBLEM IS JUST INCREDIBLE.ON MARCH 1ST,I HAD FEVER AND 2 DAYS LATER,I LOST INTEREST IN SEX GREATLY.MY ERECTIONS WERE ALSO VERY WEAK.I''M GAY AND I;M VERY COMFORTABLE BEING GAY.i had tremendous interest in sex.but now it has decreased.can it happen at 15,when hormones should bne racing at the speed of light?i''m so depressed dat i tried to commit suicide.i used to get erections involuntarily before i knew.now,i take 2 mins and dat too is not a strong erections.i masturbate about 2 times a day.i started it when iwas 8 years old.i always had great libido and now i''m really depressed.how can i get back my exceptional drive and ertections?i''ve lost all hpopes.i contacted a sexologit here ,in bangalore.,on telephone.he was very busybit he told it was temporary and i was just distracted.i didt understand him.how can i get distracted from sex when i was so romantic,passionate,with great libido?i''m 5''9 and i stopped growing 8 months ago.is all these things due to hormonal imbalancement or is it psychological?where in the hell can i get help?i also shooed away my BF when i''m not sexually very capable.but till now i''m a virgin.what has happened 2 me?leese tell me what kind of treatment i can go infor.tell me why i''m not gettung erections like a normal teen an'' interestd in sex like a normal teen/ HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!
DO NOT PANIC! Well, I know it is easy for me to say that, when what I understand is essentially your lost essence is giving you sleepless nights. But, believe me, it is really a temporary phase, just as your doc mentioned. There is some trigger that has lead to a loss of your libido suddenly. Are you in love with someone else? The fact that you packed off your BF indicates that probably you need to reconsider what is happening in your emotional life. May be you do not want to accept it, but I think it would be fair to yourself to sit and think of the reason. Many a times, the reasons are there staring at us and we do not want to accept it. It is either that or you may be suffering from a severe illness. But from what you wrote it is least likely. Remember, it is not our body which controls our moods, it is our moods that control our body. Straigthen your mood and everything will fall in place. All the best!
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| It would be good to know who answers the sex queries. Is it someone qualified. if so, who?
We have a psychiatrist, a heart specialist, an ENT surgeon and a counsellor, who answer these questions.
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| How does a woman become pregnant and whether one intercourse is sufficient for a woman to become pregnant.
A woman becomes pregnant when the sperm meets with the ovum and conception happens. For a woman to be pregnant, she has to be ovulating, which may depend on her menstrual cycle. The only time she does not stand the risk of becoming pregnant is during her menses. So, if she has intercourse during the unsafe days of the month, which is the ovulating days, she stands the risk of becoming pregnant.
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| is masturbation healthy or having sex more healthy. my parents had told me that masturbating affects your brain cells.they say this because one person in our family had got mad as he used to masturbate everyday.
i want to know from you whether having sex everyday or masturbating everyday affects one's health or no? or does any one of them affect our health. whenever my penis is loaded with semens i cant concentrate in my studies unless i masturbate. can i know the reason for this and can you tell me how to overcome this.
Masturbation is done by over 90 % of males and is absolutely normal. Masturbation does not have any ill effects on ones mind, body or sexual health. Most young males masturbate at least once a day. Only compulsive masturbation at the cost of other activities is however abnormal. It will be advisable for you to visit our site and get qualified information from our sex and sexuality channel. If masturbating helps you release sexual tension and study better, there is no reason for you stop it.
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| I have not had a wet dream yet, and when i ejaculate its not white how come?
You have not mentioned whether you masturbate or not but since you have mentioned you ejaculate it is presumed by us that you do so. Wet dreams are common only when no other form of sexual act (masturbation or intercourse) is used to ejaculate the semen. Thus the testes is full and is emptied during a nocturnal dream state. Semen is not absolutely white in color and has a yellow/cream color tinge to it and it is something you should not worry about.
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| I have been masturbating since the last 8/9 years. Since the last 4/5 years, I have started getting pimples/acne on my face and sometimes on back, whenever I masturbate. The acne/pimples reduce if I dont masturbate for about a fortnight or so. I would like to know the reason of this. I also would like to know if this problem will continue even after my marriage, i.e. even after I have a regular sexual intercourse. After masturbating, I also feel some burning feeling in my eyes, like the eyes are strained.
Please provide me some solution for this problem.
Just because two things seem to happen at one time does not mean they are related to each other. Masturbation is a normal practice done by as many as 90% of the males. Masturbation in no way affects ones physical, mental or sexual health. It does not cause acne and the latter is caused by infection of the sebaceous glands of the skin. For more details on acne, log on to our site www.goodhealthnyou.com for seeing detailed articles on this topic.
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| Hi,I've been reading through all the queries and your replies. I had posted a query day before yesterday, (no reply as yet), and my query was the same as quite a lot of other queries that I read about the body feeling hot or feeling tired or sleepy after masturbating. I too have been masturbating since I was 14/15 years of age, like most of the writers. Now I also have a MAJOR PROBLEM of pimples/acne everytime I masturbate. In fact, I have reduced, and even totally stopped masturbating fearing a pimple/acne. Now that so many people are querying about this same problem, dont you think the pimples and masturbation, somehow could be related. And maybe some solution to the same can be achieved with some research, for which I wouldnt mind being tested. You have been replying the same to everybody, i.e. nothing such has been clinically proven and it is healthy to masturbate, etc. etc. Now that a lot of people face this problem, it could be real. Please comment.
Masturbation is a normal practice done by as many as 90% of the males. Masturbation in no way affects ones physical, mental or sexual health. Acne is caused by the infection of sabaceous glands within the skin and this is not related to masturbation. Please check our site for articles on acne for further clarification. Enough research has gone into finding out the harmful effects of masturbation and none is yet proved.
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| Dear sir I have heard about mastrubation in college. how is it done? Is it harmful?
Masturbation is a normal practice and is performed by self stimulation of the penile organ leading to a point of orgasm (ejaculation). All claims of masturbatin being harmful are mere misconceptions.
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| How does a woman become pregnant and whether one intercourse is sufficient for a woman to become pregnant.
A woman becomes pregnant when intercourse occurs at the time of ovulation which is around fourteen days prior to the next menstruation in a regular 28 day cycle. As cycles are likely to be longer or shorter,one cannot be easily sure of the exact time of ovulation. Hence sexual activity during the expected time (few days prior or after the expected date of ovulation)of ovulation is most likely to result in conception. One intercourse thus may or may not lead to conception.
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| i had given my problem earlier to you now i am giving my full details to you that i am a 22 year boy with height 160cm and weight 85 kg,looking more fatty and i am having the breast like women due to this i feel inferiority complex and i couln't remove my clothes in front of my family members ,freinds . i want to swim but due to this problem i cant swim . sometimes i think whether this problem give some harmful effect on my sexual life in future . last five years back i consulted a endocrinologist and he suggested me a test of testesterone and estradiol. reports of are shown as below:
testesterone(T): 3.2 nglml normal values(3.0-9.0)
estradiol (E2):40.0 pglml normal values(15-45)
he also suggested me some fat burning capsules but they didnt give any effect on my fat.he told me that your hormones are imbalanced . so i would like to know from your side whether this problem can be cured and if yes please suggest me what should i do . that doctor also told me about surgery of my chest but i will not prefer surgery i want this problem can be cured by natural treatment. give some delhi based doctors address.
i am also worried about my penis size ,its about 4 inches in errection although i am having sex with my girlfreind but she didn't ask me anything about it . will it possible to increase my penis size ,now a days advetisements are like that penis size can be increased without any medicines it can be increased all by natural methods . i would like to know fron your side whehther its a truth or just a myth. pleaas solve my query .
You have several problems, the answers to which are as follows:
1)Your body weight and investigation reports suggest that you are suffering from obesity rather than an hormonal problem. Surgical interventions are not easy under these circumstances and it is best to use the time-tested techniques of exercise routines and diet-charts. Dr. Dean Ornish's book \"Reversing your heart disease\" has chapters on nutrition and exercise which will help you. Alternatively, you may contact fitness/nutrition consultants.
2)You seem to be a victim of sexual misconceptions and be assured that your penile size is perfectly normal.
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| Dear Sir,
I have been mastrubating for the past five years on a daily basis. somtimes even more than twice a day. is this harmfull for my sex life after marriage. I have have heard that excessive mastrubation leads to the bending/curving of the penis, which prevents proper insertion during sex. will this reduce my satisfaction level and does it have any implications of any sort. I will be gratefull if you could kindly throw some light on this as it has been worrying me for quite some time.
Thanks
Akash
You seem to be a victim of misconceptions as mas turbation is a normal practise, that does not affect the physical or mental health of an individual. No penis is absolutely straight and to think that masturbation is the cause of bending/curving is inappropriate.Be assured that it will not affect your future sexual/married life.
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| hi doc.
I have a 3.5\" long erect penis.I am not married and worried about it.Which methods work to get it enlarged to at least the normal size? What are the normal to large sizes of penises? Which non surgical methods do I use to enlarge my penis? Is it necessary to get circumcised?
Does the vaccume pump work to enlarge the penis.?
Tell me all you can about this enlargement part as well as about circumcision.
thanks.
prashant malhotra. mumbai
The length of the penis has no correlation with sexual performance or satisfaction, unless it is too small.This does not seem to be so in your case. There are no scientifically proven methods to increase the length of the penis. Falling prey to such claims in commercial advertisements could have adverse effects. Vacuum pump device or
circumcision will in no way change the length.The length varies from individual to individual and hence comparisons are unwarranted.
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| I am a 26 year old bachelor. I have foreskin on my penis which does not stretch back on erection. It is painful when I force it while cleaning the area. The problem is strange,since the foreskin has like grown over the past 3 years.Prior to that I did not have any problem. Nowadays there is also a lot of itching on the area under the foreskin. Should this problem be corrected surgically and if yes then who should I consult?
Dear Bhaskar,
The description of your problem suggests that you could be suffering from phimosis/ paraphimosis.Conservative treatment is possible only in the earlier stages, after which surgical intervention is a must, in which case you would require to contact a consulting general surgeon.
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| I asked this question two or three days back but I did not receive any answer in my email address.Could you please recommend a medicine available in India which can perform at least a little bit of the functions of viagra
Unfortunately there is no such medicine available in India. You are cautioned against falling prey to any such claims made in commercial advertisements regarding the same.
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| I am suffering freom erectile dysfunction since last 8-10 months, before this I was totally normal.I want to know if there is any medicine for the same.
There could be many causes for erectile dysfunction, for example 1)physical disease 2)medications that you may be taking 3)excessive consumption of alcohol or other drugs of abuse
4)physical or psychological stress 5)Not getting along well emotionally with the sexual partner etc. For getting relieved of the erectile dysfunction, you need to know which of the above causes are operating in you and once recognised, the cause can be specifically tackled. Otherwise, randomly using any medicine without tackling the root cause may be in fact harmful.I would suggest that you consult your family doctor first who would help you delineate the cause of the erectile dysfunction and then seek a remedy accordingly. You are most welcome to send us back a further query with more details if you so wish.
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| For the past 6 months I have been ejaculating in the night or rather early mornings once every week. Is there any way I can prevent this as it is affecting me alot .
Your problem is that of nocturnal emissions.Semen is produced 24 hour a day and is stored in the seminal vesicles. The semen thus stored is released through either 1)sexual intercourse or 2)masturbation. If either of the two are not practised, the semen accumulated in the seminal vesicles gets released during a nocturnal dream (fantasy). If you are unmarried, regular masturbation is likely to stop the nocturnal emissions. If you prefer not to masturbate, nocturnal emissions could continue, in which case, you should consider this to be a normal phenomenon and not worry about it.
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| frequency of intercourse since diabteic last 2 yrs(140 post lunch)
Dear Raju, kindly post your query to us again in adequate detail, as the nature of your problem is not clear. Looking forward to supporting you.
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| The length and thickness of my penis is less when compared to people of similar age group. I want to know whether any medicine exist which can improve the length and thickness of my penis. If yes, please suggest a suitable remedy.
The length and the thickness of the penis has no relation to sexual performance or gratification. There are no medications available for increasing the length or thickness of the penis.You may visit a urologist to rule out hormonal dysfunctions which could lead to such problems.
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| I am in my mid thirties and unable to acheive sustained erection. I am on medication for hypertension -I find it difficult to discuss this issue with my doctor.
Dear Rajesh,
Some antihypertensives are known to affect sexual function. However you have not mentioned the name of the medicine you are on, in your query. It is advisable that you discuss the matter with your doctor freely, as afterall doctors are well trained in dealing with such issues in many of their patients. In fact, once you mention your problem to your doctor, he will be the one to change your medicine or its doses so that you are relieved of your problem.
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| I am married for the last 3 1/2yrs and have a 2 1/2yr old baby.I am suffering from premature ejaculation problem.I have tried different methods like stop & start, pinching the tip of the penis to stop ejaculation but with no concrete result.Please help.Also provide names of medicines or suggest the name of some reputed sexologist in calcutta alongwith tel. no.
Your problem of premature ejaculation can also be treated with medicines taken few hours prior to sexual intercouse. You will require to meet a psychiatrist in Calcutta for a valid prescription.
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| Can you recommend a medicine available in India similar to that of Viagra to obtain erection?
Unfortunately, there is no known medicine with effects equivalent to Viagra , in India.
It is advisable that you avoid falling prey to commercial advertisements claiming the same.
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| What myths do men generally have about their sexual organs?
The most commonest misconceptions are as follows:
1)Short length of the penis means reduced sexual performance, reduced gratification for the sexual partner.
2)Masturbation leads to loss of energy,weakness, physical and mental illness, is sinful, can cause AIDS / STD, affects the penile length , girth and shape.
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| I have high cholesterol problem.I have been taking Lipidex,a homeopathic medicine and it has no side effects.Recently, my Doctor(allopath)has prescribed an allopathic medicin,viz.,LIPISTAT 10 mg(Lovastatin).Kindly let me know whether this medicine will cause any side effect in respect to sexual activity,especially erection.
Dear Nox,
Thanks for your query. We have searched the research database for you and found that majority of the research studies suggest that lovastatin does not impair sexual (testicular) function.With respect to the homeopathic medicine, we have forwarded this query to our expert from that field and would get back to you shortly.
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| Actully from last 1 month I am manstrubating , and I thought becaue of this I got a problem of acne , but you said that as under:
\"It was believed to cause such disorders as acne, blindness, and insanity. Today, however, we know that masturbation is not harmful. It does not cause any physical or mental disorder. \"
I show my problem to doc.
When I am not mastrubating I feel quite healthy , but when I mastrubate my skin becomes hot , and I also feel same , please help me , is this because of mastrubating.
Dear Rajen,
Masturabation in no way leads to physical or psychological problems. Your acne problem is likely to be completely independent of sexual activity and may require treatment from a skin specialist.
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| I got recently married and facing problems in making love due to premature ejaculation and also that erection is maintained for a long time. Please tell the ideal position for the biggeners and remedy for the above problems. I am in perfect health and have no such family history. Thanking you in anticipation-Ravindra
Premature ejaculation is a common problem for many. However it can be treated effectively using the squeeze technique and the stop-start technique (both of which feature briefly on our site). You may want to get a psychiatrist to help you with the above methods as well as the best position. The psychiatrist could also prescribe you medications that you may take a few hours before sex, so as to delay the ejaculation.
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| I am 25 years old married man and I came to your site with a great hope. My problem is that the size of my penis is very small and it does not get erection for a long time .
I have consulted to a local doctor He has suggested me some tests. The reports are:
1)Semen examination:-a) Colour:- Greyish white. b)volume 3 ml. c) Liquifaction time:- 30 minutes
2) Chemical examination:-a) pH Fructose:- 7.2 mg/dl
3)Microscopic Examination:- a)sperm Count:-Azodspermic millions/ml b) Motility(one Hour):- 0% (c) Abnormal forms:-0% (d) pus cells:- 1 /hpf (e) Epitheial cells:- 1 /hpf (f):-RBC:- absent (g):- Trichomonas:- absent
4) Hormone Profile:-Prolactin Level:- 12.85 ng/ml
5)Testosterone Level(IRMA):-6.8 ng/ml
6) Organism Isolated:- No Growth
Please help me or one day I will commit suicide.
Please reply soon and try to bring me out from this dark world. Gurpreet
Dear Gurpeet,
Size of the penis has no relation what so ever with sexual gratification.
Your problem of not getting an erection for a longer time will require a detailed examination by two experts 1)Urologist and 2)Psychiatrist.
Moreover it is important to meet a specialist as your report mentions azoospermia.
Finally sexual activity can be severly affected by depression, which could be due to several reasons. Given the fact that you have suicidal thoughts it is important that you consult a psychiatrist and tackle this problem at the earliest. It is possible that your sexual performance might improve once your depression is treated.
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| How important is the length of the penis important for good sex & orgasm?
What is the average size of the penis of Indians?
Are there any safe methods to increase the penis length & girth?
Dear Kumar,
That sexual gratification depends upon the length, girth and erectness of the penis is a misconception.
Each individual is unique and penile lengths vary from individual to individual in flacid and erect states. It has been scientifically proved that individuals with shorter flacid penis make up for the same with longer erections at the time of sex.
Also, sexual intercourse is possible with a partially erect penis.
There are no known safe methods to increase the length & girth of penis, and I suggest that you do not get tempted to try out some methods that are marketed without consulting a qualified doctor.
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| Hi,
I am a 25 year old male living in India. I have never had sexual intercourse with anybody in my life. I have been masturbating since the age of 15.
Sometimes after masturbating a burning sensation starts to develop at the tip of my penis. It goes away by itself only after I urinate and sometimes after I excrete.
This problem does not occur everytime I masturbate. I have observed that it sometimes occurs on occasions when my penis is not well lubricated. How do I get rid of this problem?
Is there a possiblity that I have contacted some sexual transmitted disease? Or is there a problem with my penis? Is it possible to contact STD or AIDS via masturbation (masturbating alone).
Again I have never had sexual intercourse nor do i indulge in any high risk behaviour.
-KD
Dear KD,
Masturbation can at times cause irritation of local tissues, leading to some discomfort for a short period. This should not be a cause for worry. Being gentle at the time of masturbation will relieve you of this discomfort.
There is no way in which you will contract STD /HIV by masturbating.
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| My penis is very small. The size is so short, as of a two year old boy. There is no generation of sperm also. Please tell me the reason and what is the treatment to cure it?
Dear Mr jain,
Thanks for visiting our site. The penile size in a flacid state does not matter as far as normal sex life is concerned. It has been proved that people with small penis have normal lengths when erect.
However your inability to ejaculate semen (sperms as you put it) is worthy of further investigations. Kindly consult a urologist and get appropriate hormonal tests done, as any deficiency in the same can be treated with medications, which in turn might positively impact your problem related to lack of semen.
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| whenever my wife gives a blowjob I get a pecular tickling sensation on the front top side of the penis and feel as though I might urinate. Is this phenomena normal? If not then is there any way in which I can over come it?
Dear Jadhav,
The descriptions of your symptoms do not suggest that you have any problem. The sensory nerves are heavily concentrated over the skin of the penis, which might be causing the sensations that you sense. Getting a feeling of wanting to micturate is very common.
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| I am unable ejaculate during intercourse. I am married for the past 11 months.
I have semen ejaculation dreams and in the early mornings.I have seen it its sticky liquid with nasty smell.It has been happening for 5 years.
But never happnes when I have intercourse with my wife.
I have consulted a SEX specilaist who advised me a penile doppler test . After seeing the reports he gave tablets Nuvir . But it did not have any effect.
Later I consulted a Urologist. He gave a Vibrator Therapy.But it did no have any effect.
Now as per doctors advice I am doing a self injection in my penis to mainatin erction for long time.When we recently consulted a gynec for my wife the doctor said the Female membrane still has to open fully.
We need a child badly at any cost. The Urlogist was suggestiong a Artficial insemnation.
Am I impotent.What is my problem ? How should solve it?
Dear Suresh,
Since you get nocturnal emissions and erections it is unlikely that you suffer from impotency.
You might want to get your semen tested as that will give a clue to the precise nature of your problem.
Intercourse is possible event with a partially erect penis & its not required for the female membrane to be fully open for sperms to get into the uterus.
Your problem could be due to low sperm counts which will get detected by a semen test. If the counts are low artificial inseminisation will be the right answer to your problem.
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| I MASTURBATE 3-4 TIMES A WEEK AND I WANT TO KNOW WHETHER THIS WILL CAUSE MEMORY LOSS IN TEENS LIKE US. THIS IS BECAUSE I HAVE EXPERIENCED PROBLEMS IN STUDIES AFTER MY TENTH AND THAT IS WHEN I STARTED MASTURBATING. COULD YOU SUGGEST ME?
THEN SECONDLY,I USUALLY LIKE OLDER WOMEN THAT IS AFTER MARRIAGE SOMETHIN BETWEEN 30-50 YEARS AND I DON'T KNOW WHY.
I USUALLY MASTURBATE FANTASISING OLDER LADIES AND I HAVE EVEN FANTASISED WITH MY OWN AUNTIES AND I HAVE FELT TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM.
I EVEN THOUGHT OF APPROACHING MY OWN AUNTIES FOR A SEXUAL FAVOUR.BUT MANY A TIMES I HAVE FELT GUILTY ABOUT THIS.IAM SCARED THAT SUPPOSE IF I APPROACH THEM FOR AN INTERCOURSE I MAY BE REJECTED AND THEY WILL HAVE A VERY BAD IMPRESSION ABOUT ME.
COULD I ASK FOR A SEXUAL FAVOUR FROM MY OWN RELATIVES?ANDS SUPPOSE IF THEY AGREE CAN I HAVE INTERCOURSE WITHOUT FEELIN GUILT?
I EVEN FANTASISE YOUN GALS OF 9-15 YEARS.I DON'T KNOW IF THIS IS A OBSESSION TO ME.
PLEASE HELP ME WITH A DETAILED ADVICE.
Dear Ashok,
Masturbation is a normal practice and doing so 3-4 times per week will in no way affect your physical / psychological health. Your memory problem is more due to your obsession with sex, which does not allow you to concentrate on your studies. While it is an individual choice when it comes to choosing whom to fantasise about acting out on these fantasies might not be prudent especially when it is against the social norms of the society one lives in. Given the norms of our society it will be in your best interest to avoid getting involved with a relative.
A practical solution is for you to choose a time for sex related issues, i.e. half an hour morning & evening, this will give you the freedom to do other activities like your studies with full concentration during rest of the day.
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| Sir,
I have a habit of masturbating more than twice a day. Is that going to affect my health? If yes, please do tell me how I can get rid of this habit?
Dear Priyaj,
Reasearch on masturbation has shown that it does not cause any ill effects on health. Be assured that if you continue the activity at the frequency you mention, there should be no problem per se.
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| I got married on Dec'99 with a 20 year old girl.We have decided not to have a kid till my wife is 23, but my friends and relatives are forcing to have the first issue as soon as posssible otherwise there will be problem in cocceving later on. Can you suggest me the right way out.
Dear AD,
you have made the right decision and should continue to abide by the same. Problems related to late conception occur when the would be mother is in her thirtiees. In case you feel the pressure of your friends & relatives get them to meet a doctor who could explain them out of their misconceptions.
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| I am in a habit of masturbation quite, often like. I do it 4 to 5 times at a strech, but later I feel the stomach disorder, and pain in passing motions and urine. Also sometimes on the left side of my testis, there occurs a serious pain . I dont know what to do ? and whom to consult?
Dear Bharat,
Masturbation is a normal practice and done by almost all males. The frequency varies from individual to individual, though it is more in younger age groups. You are getting pain in the testes and while passing urine because continuous sexual activity irritates local tissues and organs. It will not occur if you divide your activity i.e. masturbate twice a day.
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| I am in a habit of masturbation quite often. I masturbate 4 to 5 times at a strech, but later I feel a stomach disorder, and pain in passing motions and urine. Also sometimes on the left side of my testis, there occurs a serious pain . I dont know what to do ???? and whom should I consult????
Dear Bharat,
Masturbation is a normal practice. The average number is generally once or twice a day. You are getting pain while passing urine and in testes because you are masturbating to many times at one instance. This is likely to cause irritation to local tissues leading to pain.
The best thing to do is to reduce the number of times you masturbate at one time and divide the activity over the day.
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| I AM A UNMARRIED PERSON. I FEAR MY PENIS SIZE IS ABOUT 5 INCHES ONLY AND I WANT TO INREASE THE SIZE SO, PLEASE SUGEST ME HOW TO INCREASE THE SIZE OF MY PENIS.
Dear Rony,
You have a perfectly normal penile length. Research has shown that sexual gratification does not depend upon length of penis, in fact people with shorter penis have almost the same length as others during erection.
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| Dear Sir,
I want to know that whether this is a problem , as I have wet dreams (sometimes) when I fantasice/see sex movies.
thankyou & obliged
Dear Hemansu,
Wet dreams - also called nocturnal emissions are normal. The semen is produced continuosly and requires an outlet, which is generally in the form of masturbation, sex or nocturnal emissions. If you are unmarried, regular masturbation would stop your nocturnal emissions.
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| I am mastubrating three times a day, from last three years. Will this affect my health, or my married life?
Dear Anubhav,
Masturbation is a normal practice amongst males. The frequency is generally more (as in your case)in the earlier years and goes down as age increases (when it loses its novelty). Be assured that it will not hamper either your physical health or your married life.
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| I masturbulate everyday, you can say that for 365 days. Can this affect my sexual life in future and in what way? Please mail me urgently ?
Dear Sadik,
Masturbation is a normal phenomenon. Indulging in masturbation on a daily basis will not affect your sexual or physical health in any way.
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| What are the symptoms of ghonnoria and what are the medicines and doses for treatment of the disease. Please answer.
Dear Raj,
The common symptoms of ghonnorial infection are:
1)Fever.
2)Purulent discharge and burning micturation.
3)Enlarged lymph nodes in the inguinal region.
This problem is commonly treated with antibiotics. As it is medically unethical to prescribe medicines without examining a patient it is prudent that you consult a skin specialist. However the best way to treat this problem is to avoid getting this sexually transmitted disease in the first place.
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| what are the symptoms of ghonnoria and what are the medicines and doses for treatment of the disease.pl answer.
Please refer to our feature on `Know your STDs\", in which you will find what gonorrhea is all about. As for the treatment of the disease, it would be best to get the advice of an expert on the same.
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| I am 21. My problem is that I still have not grown beard on my face. Why does this occur and what is the remedy?
Dear Vinay,
The two plausible reasons for your problem are:
1)Constitutional - Which means that's the way you are made. There are many who do not have a full grown beard and yet it is perfectly normal & natural.
2)Endocrine problem: This could be a rare cause and you will require to meet a endocrinologist for further guidance.
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| I have a very large varicocele on my left testicle for five years. I also have a problen of urine leakage, around 10 drops of urine leak after I have urinated and put on my pants. For some time I have been having yellowish semen whenever I masturbate.I have never ever had sex in my life. Please tell me wheather I have any STD or is it AIDS. What should I do? Also, whenever I pass stool there is a burning sensation in the anus for 5 minutes.
You have the following problems:
1)Varicocele - For which you ought to contact a urosurgeon. The urologist will also need to examine and find out the cause for the driblling of urine.
2)Your other problem about the colour of semen, STD & AIDS is due to misconceptions . Kindly meet a sex counsellor or a psychiatrist to get detailed explanations. Be assured that since you have not had sex you are unlikely to have STD / AIDS.
3)The burning after stools could be due to a small fissure, please consult a surgeon.
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| I am married for 2 years and we have a son born recently. During intercourse, I ejeculate within 4 to 5 min after a few strokes while my wife does not reach climax. Then she wants tactile stimulation to reach climax. Further she responds very vigourously to tactile stimulation by contracting vaginal muscles while in intercourse, she does not responds so hottly. I would like to inform that my penis becomes maximum of 6 inches long in excited state. Kindly advise me how to satisfy my wife without tactile stimulation and is there any problem with my penis?
Dear DKG,
You have a problem of \"Premature ejaculation\".
This problem is easily treated with certain behavioral modifications like \"stop start technique\" or by use of medications,a few hours prior to sex.
The length of your penis is normal and the earlier you stop worrying about it the better it will be for you.
Kindly contact a psychiatrist for personal guidance.
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| I am suffering from early ejaculation and hence not able to satisfy my partner. What are the remedies?
Dear Krishna,
Your problem of premature ejaculation is a common one. This problem can be tackled by use of simple techniques like the squeeze method and stop-start method, check them out in our sex and sexology section. The other way to handle the problem is to consult a psychiatrist who could prescribe you medications to delay the ejaculation.
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| what are the symptoms of ghonnoria and what are the medicines and doses for treatment of the disease.pl answer.
Thank you for responding to us. Your query is been directed to an expert and shall be answered shortly.
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| I want to do sex with girls how do i talk about it to girls which i dont now show i just stand nude in front of them ..
Thank you for responding to us. Your query is been directed to an expert and shall be answered shortly.
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| Please let me know how to satisfy my wife at the time of ovolution i.e 14th day of cycle. That day I think more about it and psychologically unable to do the intercourse. Rest of the days its ok.
Your query suggest that you want to have safe sex during the period of ovulation. The best way to do so is to use condoms, which however have a failure rate of 1%. The only other way in which you can satisfy your wife is to reach her to an orgasm without actually having an intercourse (eg. oral sex, or clitorial stimulation).
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| What are water-based lubricants ? Can you specify a brand or place where i can find one ?
Thank you for responding to us. Your query is been directed to an expert and shall be answered shortly.
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| I recently got married. It was a love marriage and she is 3 yrs elder to me.We used to have pleasure through foreplay before marriage. But after marriage she finds it difficult to have an orgasm because she gets discomfort during intercourse. She also has a mental block that she will have a lot of pain. I get angry as I cannot enjoy too.Please help me to bring out the best in us.
This is a common problem for newly married couples. You will have to show patience as any negative reaction will only worsen matters.
You will require to meet a psychiatrist for detailed guidance, however some tips could help:
1)Brush aside the disspointments of the recent past. You can't have sex with tension in the air.
2)Increase period of foreplay. As lubrication will be optimal thus making intercourse easy.
3)If lubrication continues to be problem, use lubricated condoms.
4)Consult a gyenacologist as local infections can cause pain and can be treated completely.
5)Finally do not allow this to affect your married life in general. Love & compassion will help in the long run.
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| I am not getting full erection as before. Can it be bad ? What is the remedy ? I am a sensuous person and am not enjoying absence of full erection.
Many thanks for the question. It is perfectly fine to be sensuous at your age. However to expect an erection as one has in the younger age is illogical. One has to accept that with ageing the physiological changes will affect various parts of the body including the gonadal hormones and organs.
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| we are having problem in having child.The main reason being semen volume and high mortality of sperms.
I am also a diabetic.Please sugguest medicine for increasing volume and have low mortality.Awaiting your reply.tks
Thank you for responding to us. Unfortunately there is no definite medicine for increasing the quality and quantity of sperms. It is advisable that you consult a gyenaecologist who specialises in artificial inseminisation as they could isolate the viable and healthy sperms from you and artificially insert them when your wife is most likely to ovulate. This will make it possible to have a child, something that seems to be a priority for you.
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| what is the ideal size of an erect penis?
Thank you for responding to us. There is no ideal size of an erect penis. If the penis is sufficiently long to enter the first third of the vagina, it is possible for both partners to achieve sexual gratification. It is important to note that even a partially erect penis is suffiecient for a intercourse.
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| Please help me with some tips to have longer sex period with partner. I get tired immediately after ejaculation which happens just after 3-5 minutes of sex.
Thank you for responding to us. Your problem is that you get premature ejaculation. There are techniques like the stop-start and squeeze methods that you may want to use (visit our site for details). Alternatively, you may get guidance on these techniques from a psychiatrist who may also be in a position to prescribe you medications (to be taken few hours prior to sex) that delay ejaculation.
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| I masturbate 4 -5 a week. Will it affect my sexual life after marrage. I havent't had sex with any girl yet.
Thank you for responding to us. At the frequency you mention masturbation will in no way affect your physical, mental or sexual life before or after marraige. Its perfectly fine if you have not had sex yet, there is no reason to feel bad about the same.
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| Sir, from the last six months,I stimulated my girl friend breast alternatevely.we both enjoy this feeling, but her breast size has been increasing. we want to know that this practice can create any type of breast problem,
dieases,child feeding,or any type of sex problem or not.If it does not create any type of problem than it mean that we can enjoy this practice.Thanks.
Thanks for the query.
There will be no ill effects of your current practice and you may continue to indulge in the same.
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| I have been married for 9 yrs now
Me and my wife are sexually very active
and normally want to have sex 2-3 times
per session. However, I have a problem
that after the first time I get distracted
and cant get aroused and have an erection quickly
Also, even if I get an erection it is not full
I am not fully aroused and am terribly distracted
Also, I take a very long time to have my ejaculation
some time I dont at all and both me and my wife loose
interest after some time. My wife normally gets
aroused after the first intercourse and I feel that I
am not satisfying her the second and the third time
Pls advice. My wife is also 33 yrs. We have 2 children.
Also, even though I am married I regularly masturbate every
day, does it have anything to do with the above problem.
Awaiting your advice.
Thanks
GG
Masturbation has nothing to do with the above problem. It is natural for men to not get sufficiently aroused a second time after immediately after the first orgasm. While women do not seem to have a problem. The only way out is to have a time gap between two turns or bring your wife to orgasm without through stimulation (clitorial)rather than an intercourse.
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| I am newly wed. I am-not able to penetrate my wifes vagina beccause she seems to be nervous and any amount of pressure doesn't allow me in. Pls tell me what we can do.
Please follow the instructions below:
1) Be gentle, do not hurry your spouse.
2)reassure your wife and discuss the matter with her.
3)Indulge in fore play for a longer time as this will dialte the vagina and also lubricate it sufficiently.
4)If lubrication continues to be deficient use lubricated condoms.
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| dear sir/ma'am
we have a very good relation between me and my girlfriend.
it happens that some time we do indulge in to oral sex.
some time i do kiss the upper part of her vagina and it so happens that after that she gets an urge and thereafter she masturbates.
After that on left and right hand side of her waist she gets a pain.
I dont know what type of pain is that.
can you explain that ?
does she required to go to a gnyac?
It so happens that after my kissing at her lower part, are there any chanches of any infection?
kindly help me.
thankyou.
Some individuals do get pain and discomfort following sexual activity. It is unlikely to be due to an infection in which case the problem would occur even otherwise. Try and be more gentler if you indulge in a vigrous activity as that may cause irritation to local tisues giving rise to the discomfort.
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| I am married for the last 16 yrs and my wife is aged 39 yrs now. She doesn't allow me to have sex regularly from the day of the marriage. We have girl who is 15 yrs now. She was born with luck. We have sex once in six months or more. I have discussed with my wife so many times to tell me the reson for avoiding sex. But she says that she likes but does not allow to have regularly. Can you suggest how to know her intentions and regular sex or how to solve the situation.
You will require to consult a sex counsellor or a psychiatrist for ascertaining the precise cause of this.
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| I masturbate alot a ell lot sometumes 5-6 times a day . will it harm me or my future life? I've read it will:
The answer in one word is \" NO \".
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| I am 25 years old. I used to masturbate from a very early age (before 10) although I didn't know what I was doing at the time. Presently, I have found that I ejaculate prematurely. In fact even while I kiss my girlfriend, with all clothes on, I tend to ejaculate. I am afraid to think of what will happen when we actually have sex. I have read of the squeeze/stop-start method. Since at this stage my girlfriend cannot be involved, what do you suggest I do? Is there a yoga technique to prolong an errection?
Sexual activity is like exercise and you will get used to it over time.Once this happens you will realise that you are now able to sustain in the sexual act for a longer time.
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| i am a healthy male,21 years of age.my problem is that i have a lot of itching on my glans,especially some time after i take a bath.if i put powder then there is no itching.also the portion which joins the body has become very dry.i have had sexual experience and i used a condom.
You should get your self examined by a skin specialist to rule out a infection. Do this at the earliest.
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| I got married six months back. Whenever I have sex with my wife, although I feel that the sperms have been discharged and I get a feeling that my pennis is shrinking and also a type of blockage from my wife''s body, whenever I remove it the sperms flow out. Is it that it does not go in and if yes what could be the reason.
It is normal for the penis to reduce in size during and after discharge. As the penis becomes flacid the size reduces and the penis will tend to come out of the vagina immediately (unless you hold it in the vagina despite it becoming flacid) leading to discharge of some sperms outside the vagina. This in no way means that no sperms were deposited within the vagina. The only solution is to voluntarily hold the penis within the vagina until you dischrge you semen completely.
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| I have been masturbating since I was 12 years of age. I am about to get married within 6 months time. My problem is that I face Premature Ejaculation all time. Whenever I indulge in foreplay with my fiance, I always leek lot of fluid from my penis. Even if I fantasise for 2-3 mins or talk about sex with my fiance, I always leek lot of fluid and that too within just 2-3 mins. I have even taken medicines from a doctors advice like Capsule Fludac & Clofranil but they were of no help. I really do not know how to solve this problem. Pls advise.
Moreover, I am very ignorant about sex. I don''t want a child for atleast 3 years. Pls advise how can I have safe sex without having my wife pregnant. My wife has an irregular menstrual period cycle. How can I avoid pregnancy? I''ve never had sex in my life. Pls advise me
some sexual positions. Which condoms should I use and how should I use them? Pls advise.
Premature ejaculaton decreases with time, thus as you get habituated with discussing sex realted topics the problem will slowly reduce. The medications you are taking a perfect but have to be taken few hours before anticipated sexual activity. Also it may be worthwhile to ask your doctor to adjust the doses. The other techniques like the stop-start and squeeze method are featured on our site and are also effective.
Following marraige you will have several options to chhose from as far as contraceptive methods is concerned, please meet a gyenaecologist for details or visit our site in future as we will shortly feature detailed articles on the same. The precise sexual positions that suit you will and your wife will have to be worked out mutually. Finally condoms like Nirodh, Kamasutra, etc are of good quality and may be used by you.
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| \"Bend penis\" Is there any method to straighten it,bent is considerable and I am afraid what will happen after marriage.Please advice curable solution.
No penis is absolutely straight. What is important is whether or not you get an erection, If yes you are unlikely to face any difficulty at the time of intercourse following marraige.
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| I have been married six months and we are yet to enjoy normal intercourse. We consulted a gynacologist who said that my wife's opening was small and suggested we use some lubricants. We managed once but are unable to do so again. I also find that as time passes my erection is becoming less frequent and quite soft. We are at a complete loss as to what to do. Could you recommend a solution to us and put us in touch with appropriate doctors who may be able to help us.
You are most likely to benifit by the advise given by your gyenaecologist. The other experts who will be of help are sex counsellors and psychiatrist. One way in which you could get to help your self out is to read the book \"celestial bed\" by Irwing Wallace. The book is based on the techniques of Master and Jhonsons and is in a novel form. Although it is based on the concept of surrogate sex therapists (which is unethical)you can follow the steps mentioned with your wife to relieve her of the problem.
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| I donot enjoy intercourse when my husband is using a condom. can you let me know what are the other methods available, which will allow us to enjoy sex without condom.
It seems that you do not like to condoms and yet want to assure some way of contraception. You will hence require to have sex without a condom during the safe period and with a condom during the danger periods (time of ovulation). There are several methods to calculate these periods but getting an opinion from your gyenaecologist wiil be ideal. The other way is to use spermicidal gels which however are not with out risk (not fuul proof) of failure, in that it is possible to get pregnant in spite of their use.
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| I am married since last one year, We thought of not having a kid for at least one year. Now we are planning to be in the family way. But we we do intercourse, my wife always complains that it is not going to the correct position and often she says that it is bending down .Tell me waht to do Please!!
As long as you are able to dischrage the semen within the vagina you have nothing to worry about as. The sperms will then follow their own route to bring about conception.
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| Dear Sir,
My Question to you is that my penis is very small, it may be only one inchs, diameter may be only 1/4 or 1/2 an inch's during non-erection time but during erection time it will be 4 & 1/2 inches & 1 half inches in diameter.
I am Married since 3 months.My wife is very beautiful & sexey I want to enjoy her with full swing I don't know Why I am unable to do so. She is very co-operative, I like to have intercourse from her back due to the my small size penie, I am afraid to do so.
Can You tell me This problem is due to non growth or urology problem or parmanet disability in my life?
How to treat this? Can you prescribe me some thing to me to do so and how to increase / develope my penis to normal size as like other indians?
Many thanks for the question. First of all be assured that you are perfectly normal. It is normal to have a short flacid penis of your length as scientifically it has been proven that short flacid penis make in length at the time of erection, which is true in your case. The vagina is most sensitive to touch in the outer third and sexual gratification is not dependent on length of the penis. Finally you may continue to have intercourse using the position that suits you the most as it will have no ill effects in any way. I am afraid there are no medications that will enhance the penis anatomically.
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| I inserted my penis into a girl's vagina maybe just two inches and pulled out within 10 seconds. I was no way near orgasm and didn't ejaculate. could she get pregnant?
Thanks for the query. Although you did not ejaculate within the vagina there is every possibility that the initial prostatic fluid that ozzes out (considered by many as a physiological lubricant) can have sperms in it. However whether a girl becomes pregnant or not will depend upon whether she ovulated at the same time or not. It is advisable to use more safer methods for avoiding serious complications associated with unwanted pregnancies.
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| Sir,me and my girl friend want to do oral sex.
Is it safe to do oral sex, oral sex can can not spread any dieseases like AIDS,pregenency,
or any other sex related problem.
It is perfectly safe to do oral sex so long as you do it with a trusted partner. However as HIV & other STD's are transmitted via body fluids this does not remain a sfe practice when done with a person from high risk group (commercial sex workers)
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| Is it safe to drink the semen that is ejaculated while having oral sex
Many thanks for your query. Oral sex has been practiced by many for centuries. It is natural for small amounts to be ingested while doing so. As of now there are no documented hazards of this practice. However one should not indulge in this practice with any one else but a trusted pertner due to the fear of transmission of HIV, which is transmitted via all body fluids.
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| I have been married for more than 3 years now. I was having normal sex life in this period. But now for the last 2 months I feel the erection in penis is low and moreover while having sex with my wife it take me very long for ejaculation / discharge. Pls let me know what could be the problem and remedy by return mail. There is a very sweet pain also in my penis for the last 2 weeks also.
Thanks in advance,
Regds,
Many thanks for visiting our site. It is natural to have a reduced level of erection after few years of marraige, this is due to lack of novelty which is mans natural need. You will need to discuss this with your spouse and get to know each others needs and fantasies and act out on the same as this will bring about the required novelty.
With respect to the pain that you sense the precise diagnosis will depend on several factors like the type of pain, duration of pain, whether there are any exacderbating factors, etc. If the pain persists or worsens please do take your doctors opinion.
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| I am facing a problem i.e after ejaculation, when I withdraw my penis, the semen also flows out.Would this create problems in my wife getting pregnant. if yes, then please advise.
Your question is not clear. The practice of withdrawing the penis out at the time of orgasm is called coitus interuptus and is documented as one of the methods to avoid pregnancy. If that it your aim I am afraid that is not the safest of techniques to use as even the prostatic fluid that gets secreted early on while doing sex is likely to have sperms in it. There are several other techniques for avoiding pregnancy, the best being calculating the safe period and use of condom.
If however you want your wife to get pregnant and your problem is that part of the semen flows out as you withdraw, then the good news is that what ever amount of semen is discharged within the vagina is likely to be sufficient for conception.Your wife will not suffer from any problems.
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| Dear Sir,
I have got married before 10 months. When I have orgasm with my wife she complained about pain on her vagina. Hence we can't enjoy the night. There is another problem with me and that is too important Sir I think that I can't satisfy my wife because every time when I have intercorse with her I discharge only in two or three minutes. Can you advisd me some medicine .
kISHAN
KISHANSI@USA.Net
Thanks for your query.
You are suffering from premature ejaculation. premature ejaculation is very common amongst the newly wed men and can be treated easily. You will require to use certain behavioural methods like the stop-start technique or the squeeze technique.Both these are featured on our website. Alternatively it might be required for you to visit a psychiatrist who not only will teach you the above methods but also be in a position to prescribe you medications which when taken hours before sex will delay the ejaculation. We are sorry we can not prescribe medication through this medium as medically its unethical to do so.
with regards the pain your wife senses it is likely that she does not attain adequate lubrication. It is advisable for you to spend longer time during the foreplay phase which will enhance the lubrication. Alternatively you may want to use commercially available lubricants or lubricated condoms for the same effect.
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| I am a male of 28 and about to get married shortly. I have been masturbating for the last 12 years, and of late I have noticed that, I take a longer time for erection. Now I require lot of hand stimulation to get it erect. Also the glans doesn't get as hard as it used to be earlier. Will I have problem during vaginal penetration, as the glans is not so hard. Also my semen quantity has reduced and thinner than earlier. It does not shoot out, rather just trickles out when ejaculated. Please advice, I am very tense.
Many thanks for your query. masturbation is a normal practice and has no ill effects on ones body or psyche.
Masturbation is like any other exercise, for example if one were to begin pushups today, on day one that person may get tired on the 10th count but with practice will be able to do even 50 pushups. Similarly when one masturbates regularly it takes longer time for getting the orgasm, also as the novelty reduces over time, it becomes difficult to get the required level of erection. since the erection is not as required it is natural for the semen to trickle. This is absolutely normal and in no way going to affect yopur married life.
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| Dear Doctor,
I realize the gravity of AIDS and hence plan to get blood test of my prospective wife done for HIV.
Which are the other Sexually Transmitted Bacteria's or Viruses for which testing needs to be done.
Which of the Sexually Transmited Bacteria's and Viruses cause Fatal and life threatening illness.Are Hepatatis A, B , C life threatening.
Please list the total set of Viruses and Bacteria's for which one must test.
STD and HIV tests are done in most hospitals both private & Public.
The common sexually transmitted bateria / viruses are are - Syphylis, gonorrhea,Toxoplasma,HIV, Hepatitis B, Cytomegalovirus, Herpes simplex virus.
All of these when untreated are fatal however cure is not possible in case of Hepatitis B and HIV/AIDS.
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| Hello, when i was 15 I heard from someone how to remove sperms from the body and I tried many
times and sperms also came out I get a lot of joy & pleasure. But is it right to do such thing.
Your practice of masturbation is a normal practice done by over 90% of the males all over the world. There is no harm what so ever to ones physical or mental health and you may safely continue to derive your pleasure.
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I am a 18 year old male, i have been having sex for a long time with my girlfriend and there was no problem. But now we had sex last week and her regular periods is not yet happened,we are worried,we are scared of pregnancy we dont know what to do and which medicine to take.She is 17 years old and im sure that i have not leaked my sperm inside hers,I often leak it outside.Sir please help me im scared that she might become pregnant,please prescribe some medicine for that and some advice.
yours sincerely k.
Thanks for the query. From your description it seems that you were practicing the method of coitu interuptus i.e. indulging in an intercourse and ejaculating outside at the time of orgasm. This unfortunately is not a safe method to avoid pregnancy as even the early prostatic discharge is likely to have sperms in it. The fear of you friend having become pregnant can be checked out by doing a pregnancy test. The test kits are commercially available or alternatively the test may be done at a hospital. In case the test is positive, you may want to go for an abortion, in which case you will require assistance from a qualified gyenacologist. Any unqualified intervention is likely to be life threatening.
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| Almost an year ago I engaged in unprotected sex with a prostitute. This was the only occassiion when I had unsafe sex.Ever since I have been living in paranonia of haviing contracted HIV. I am based in Bombay, how can I go about getting myself tested.
Thanks for visiting our site. It is nice to know that your have realised the mistake and not repeated the act of visiting a commercial sex worker. Your fear is justified and can be removed only by a negative test result. You may visit any private or public hospital's skin department or medical OPD and ask for the test.
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| After our first child was born, 5years back[normal delivery]we are not able to enjoy sex, i find my wife's vaginal passage has become big, i am not able to obtain satisfaction as earlier, is there any remedy, medicine, procedure to solve this problem?
Many thanks for the query. The vaginal passage is likely to have enlarged following the dilivery of your baby. This may not be allowing you to get the required stimulation. It is however important to rule out if there is a treatable cause responsible for the same, in which case a visit to a gyenaecologist will help.
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| Hi.
I am getting married on next month and I wanted to know about safe sex... I mean I don't want a child so early.. Pl. advice me on this.
Dear S,
There are several methods for avoiding pregnancy.
One technique is that you can calculate the safe period for sex. If the mensrual cycle is a regular 28 day cycle the unsafe period is from the 8th to 24th day (with the first day of the menstruation being counted as the first day of the menstrual cycle). However if the cycles are irregular or more than 28 days, it would require more sphisticated techniques to know the safe period (for example basal body temprature) however in such a case it is safer to use other methods of contraception rather than safe sex methods.
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| We are married for last four months and have a regular & norml sex life. But my wife does not achieve her orgasm during the sexual intercourse. She do not have any feeling. Though she enjoys tactile stimulation of the clitoris. Please let me know why she is not able to achieve orgasm.
There are several reasons why a woman may not get an orgasm:
1)Generally women take longer to get an orgasm in the first place. It might help if you could delay your orgasm by a few minutes.
2)Also different women experience orgasmic pleasure differently. Some studies have shown that some women actually get an orgasm but do not identify it as so.
3)Finally it is not mandatory that orgasm has to be achieved during intercourse. It is absolutely normal to use clitorial stimulation to achieve the desiered result.
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| Dear Goodhealth n you,
I'm 25 years old bachelour and have been masturbating quite frequently for last 4-5 years. But from last few months I feel like loss of sexual power and do not feel that energetic. And the problem is when Everytime I try myself to restrict myself from masturbation, few days later I result in having ejaculation in the night, even though I don't have any arousing dreams at all. Fluid(semens) too looks very dilute. Is this any sexual disorder??? Please suggest me the needful...
Thanks and regards
A.M
Thanks for the query. Masturbation is a normal practice and is a physical activity in itself. It is thus natural to feel exhausted and fatigued follwing masturbation. The semen is produced 24 hours a day and requires to be released occasionally. This is possible at time of sex or masturbation, failing which its likely to get discharged nocturnally. It is not required that one remembers every dream / fantasy one has during sleep. If you are unmarried the best way to stop nocturnal emmisions is to masturbate regularly, at least 3 times a week.
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| what are the various sexual position, which give maximum satisfaction.
Thank you for responding to us. Unfortunately there are no specific positions that can be called as the best. This depends from couple to couple. You will require to get a book which details out the positions which you may want to try out with your partner. You will know what suits the two of you. One basic book to start with is the one writen by Masters & Jhonson.
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| hello.my problem is regarding my penis's size.
when fully erect, it measures only 4.10\".
Also, the front part of the organ or the flaccid does not come out of the skin naturally,the skin covers it,almost fully,while it is in erection.
the skin can be pulled back by the hand ,forming skin roles at the beginning of the flaccid.
i've known that the average size of the organ should be around 6.5\".
i am in a great stress. Do i need to consult any sexologist as advertised in the papers.
please reply soon regarding any treatments and precutions.
thanks.
Hello. Many thanks for your query. Your penile size does not seem to be problem. The problem lies in that you are a victim of misconceptions.The penile size has nothing to do with sexual gratification in either of the partners. The vagina has the ability to pick up sensations only from the outer third, hence a lengthy penis is not a must. The fore skin over your glans will have to be pulled back when required. If you feel that it is discomforting you may require to rule out a local infection or think of undergoing a circumcision. In either case you will require to consult a general surgeon. It is advisable that you do not fall prey to commercial advertisements.
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| Doctor, I got married very recently, I have a good erection, but the moment I insert my penis I ejaculate. I enjoy the sex this is really worrying me a lot, I have to wait 1-hour to get one more erection.
You are suffering from premature ejaculation which is common amongst many a men. This can be easily treated with certain behavioral modifications like the stop-start & the squeeze techniques. Both of these are featured on our site. If either of the methods do not work then you may get a psychiatrist to prescribe you certaing medications that may be taken few hours before anticipated sex. These medications effectively prolong/delay the time before one ejaculates.
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| Doctor My problem is that my penis is small & thin around 4 inches when erect.Also I have got breasts that are big & are like girls.But I have a lot of hair on my chest & face. Please tell me a solution on the same. I had consulted a doctor who said it was a hormonal problem.
Many thanks for the query. You are normal as far as the length of your penis is concerned. As for the breast that seem large it is likely to be due to fat deposition in which case regular exercise will help. On the other hand ot can be a rare hormonal problem in which case you will want to ask your doctor to advise you further investigations as treatment depends on accirate diagnosis.
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| I want to know how can I make my wife pregnant and at what time I should do the sex to make her pregnant.
Your keeness to have a child is understandable. If your wife has a regular 28 day menstrual cycle then she would be ovulating around the 14th day of the menses. Sex during this period is most likely to lead to a conception. If however your spouse is having irregular menses ypu will require to consult a specialist to confirm the period of her ovulation.
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| I WANT TO KNOW HOW MANY TIMES WE CAN DO SEX IN A WEEK.
Thanks for visiting our site. There are no pre-set limits on the number of times a couple can/can not have sex. Its completely your choice. Most couples in your age group of twenties have sex once a day which then reduces with age.
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| Hello Doctor, I am married for the last 3 years, but never had satisfactory sex till date. I find my wife not much interested in Sex and it is always one sided. Is there any medicine to increase sexual desire.
Is any lubricant required to increase pleasure, if yes, what.
As we don't want pregrancy now, I am using Condoms, can we do intercourse without using any contraceptive some days in a month on the calculation of her menses.Please give the calculation.
I hope you will clarify my questions.
Thanks in advance.
Many thanks for the query. from what you describe it seems that there is a mis-match in the level of interest between you & your spouse. There could be several reasons for this which you may want to explore by communicating openly. Many times one of the partners has other worries or is too tired at that given time. Taking care of such small irritants will help. There are no scientifically proven safe enhancing agents for women though there are reports of viagra and a anti-depressant (wellbutrin) having some positive effect on women in this regard. Both however are not available in India. As for birth control we suggest you see our site which has put up a detailed feature on the same.
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| I have a curved penis which is curved towards the right side.It happens only when it is in a erect position.
Can you tell me some remedy for it. Will my intercourse be painful.?
Thanks for the query. No body has an absolutely stright penis (either in flacid or erect state). Be assured that you will have no difficulty what so ever at the time of intercourse.
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| I have been married for the last eight years. Till date we have not concieved. I and my wife are very healthy. We have consulted a number of Doctors in the past but without any success. All the medical reports have been OK for both of us. Whenever we go to a doctor, the same test are recommended.
We are not very keen on the test tube techniques and other methods available. Are there any yoga asanasa for intercourse. Please advice
There are no scientifically proven yogic techniques for the problem you describe. Since the test tube baby does not inspire you, it might be worth while considering artificial insemination. Please discuss this with your doctors.
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| I am married.During lovemaking we normally indulge in foreplay,before really having intercourse.On one such occasion,fingering in my wifes genital & anus aroused her very much.She wants me to insert in her anus & try the pleasure. We normlaly use only condomns.Please advise on this aspects.Also from your site we understand that, kissing spreads heart diseases. Can we have occasional kissing after brushing in the night. Pl.comment on this also.
Thanks for visiting our site. Whether to have anal sex or not is a choice that will have to be mutually decided by the given couple. As this form is not always very comfortable after experimentation you may want to give it up all together. Kissing spreads viral infection like Cytomegalo virus & HIV only if one of the partners is infected, as this is unlikely to be the case between the two of you you may safely kiss each other with out any worries.
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| I'm an 18 year old male.I started masturbating about 4 years back.Since then I've been masturbating daily about 2 and above times.But about a couple of years ago I've noticed that my left testicle is slightly at a higher elevation than the other & I'm just scared. My another problem is that when my penis is erect it is bending towards my left.Is this problem?
Thanks for the query. It is anatomically normal to have the left testes slightly above the right. Also nobodys penis is straight like a steel rod. Be assured that you will heve no problems in your married life.
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| Dear Doc
Me and my girlfriend of one year have experienced no rythm when we try to have sex. The pleasure is there but we never sustain the rythm to orgasm.
I guess it's partly due to masturbation where we control the rythm as per our liking. What should we do ?
Your practice of masturbation has nothing to do with your not reaching orgasm during sexual activity. Many a times in unmarried young couples there are several inhibitions and fears (of pregnancy, guilt, etc)that do not allow them to perform without anxiety. This cuts down the performance level. You will require to discuss these issues and be relaxed for optimal results.
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| My marriage happened 13 months back but for the last 2 months I have lost interest in sex .I accept that there are some other issues relating to my job which are keeping me depressed.
We had satisfactory sex only 2-3 times during last two months, Most of the time I do not get full erection and ejaculate soon . Tell me if it is happening only because of my mental state or there could be some medical reason to it .
Your problem is certainly due to your ongoing mental state, one can not be excited and tensed at the same time. Please resolve your mental conflicts, discuss them with your spouse, explain her what you are going through as ventilating will make you feel better and may put you in a positive state of mind. Be assured that this is unlikely to be a medical problem.
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| I get sudden pain in my left testicle.I masturbate 4-5 times a week and I am still a bachelor.I am very worried.Kindly suggest
Many thanks for the query. You have not mentioned whether you get pain following mastubation or other wise as well. If it happens only after masturbation and is short lasting it is not likely to a serious problem, however masturbating more gently may help. If on the other hand you get pain during other times of the day as well it will be required from your side to consult a specialist (urologist) and rule out a medical problem.
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| Dear doctor,
I have this frequent query in my mind about the lenght of my penis. I have started feeling as though it is too small. The lenght if my penis when not erect is 7 cm and when erect it is 14 cm. Could you tell me if with this length will I be able to satisfy my wife and what is the average length of a penis when erect and when not.
Also are there any ways to increase the length of my penis. I am already engaged.
You are suerly a victim of sexual misconceptions. you hve normal lengths and should not think about it any more, more so because women can sense sensations maximally from the outer third of the vagina. finally there is no way in which one can increase the size of ones penis, do not fall prey to commercial claims.
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| hello Doctor,
I am getting married to my girlfriend very soon. We have been discussing various means of contraception. I am worried that if I ask her to take pills, there may be unwanted and harmful side effects. On the other hand, I did try to put on a condom. I was not very comfortable using it. Though I dont know how it will be during sex, am not sure sex will be very enjoyable with a condom on. What is the best mode of contraception??
Many thanks for the question. We suggest that you visit our site and check out a detailed article on birth control in the features section (you may use our search engine to locate the same).
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| I'm a married man of 26 from delhi.I'm married for 2 yrs now but couldn't have a proper intercourse with my wife .Now I want to have a child thru artificial insemination.So,pls. suggest me good clinics/doctors in Delhi for the same.
Thanks
Artificial inseminisation os offered by several infertility clinics of both private & public hospitals. You will want to get further information & guidance from your family doctor about the cost, location, expertise, success rates and infrastructure of a given clinic and make your choice.
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| I am a 25 year old man who has been masturbating for the past many years. Now I find that in its erected state my penis is bent downwards.Will this hamper my sexual satisfying capacity. I have heard that the clitoris is placed on the upper side of the vagina. So will my bent penis be able to provide my wife sexual satisfaction.
There will be no problem what so ever for you at the time of intercourse. The penis is in any case within the vagina at the time of intercourse and the clitoris gets stimulated by the pelvic thrusting at the time of intercourse rather than the penis.
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| I am a 24 year old healthy male. I have been enjoying masturbation from long time. While masturbation my foreskin does not go back completely. If I try to push foreskin back, I do not feel much pleasure and feels slight pain in masturbation.
I anticipate that while having intercouse ,foreskin will be pushed back due to the thrust from vagina and I would not be able to enjoy the act completely. Is it always true that foreskin should not cover top of penis during intercourse ? Do women like to see the top of penis with foreskin pushed back ? Is there any remedy for it except circumcision.
What seems to be a problem in your case may not be a problem amongst the others, this is because whether to have the foreskin right back or not is an individual choice. Again whether women like to see the glans or not depends on a given woman. If you have severe pain when the foreskin is pushed back you may want it surgically removed. I am afraid there is no other way out. At the most you may get your self examined from a surgeon to rule out an low intensity infection, in which case applying anti-biotics may help resolve the problem all together.
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| What are the symtoms of AIDS?
Thanks for the query. AIDS is the terminal stage following an HIV infection. In the begining following the entry of the virus within the body the person is asymptomatic for several months. Then when the immune system reacts to the virus (called stage of sero-conversion) one may / may not get a flu like picture following which the person may be asymptomatic for several years. This could be followed by the secon stage where the person gets swelling & inflamation of lymph glands of the body. As the virus begins to decrease the white blood cells the third stage begins when the person starts loosing weight, has diarrhea, fever and infections like Tuberculosis / pneumocystis cariniii, etc. This then leads into the full blown stage of AIDS where several systems including the CNS gets affected, before the person succumbs.
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| Since I was 14 or 15, I masturbate. Now I am of 22. I do feel the power is reducing. I do have a solid instict for sex. But my penis does not get erected as it was before some years. I suppose, because of much masturbation, i.e frequent twice daily it has happened. I have not lost interest in sex, but please tell me some exercise to get the power, or any remedy ? course of medicine? please?
Thanks for visiting our site. Masturbation in no way affects ones physical, mental or sexual health. For those who masturbate regularly for years the erectile response seems to go down because of the monotonous nature of the activity. This in no way means that there is something wrong with the penis. Also once one develops this belief that one is not performing well one is anxious about the same hence while masturbating fear of not getting an erection prevails over the sexual fantasy. Obviously one can not be both fearful and excited at the same time, so relax and get this bug out your head, as earlier you do so the better your performance will be.
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| Having the problem of premature ejaculation,I am unable to satisfy my wife and have tried stop and start and squeeze techniques but of no avail.I was told of spray named Xylogenic but only the gel is avalible in the market.Is spray availble and how is the gel safe and will not harm?Please ereply!
Premature ejaculation is treatable but one has to practice the stop start method or the squeeze technique to perfection. For more details please read the book Celestial bed by Irwing Walace. The other way out is to get a psychiatrist to prescribe you medications that when taken few hours before sex will delay the ejaculation. Commercial gels and sprays act by reducing the sensation via mild anesthetic action which may or may not suit you as decreased sensation may lead to reduced stimulation and hence reduced pleasure.
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| I want to know whether mastubration is harmful for my body.
Masturbation in no way leads to any ill effects to ones physical health, emotional or sexual health. Doing masturbation on the bed is a choice that many use and should not be a cause for worry.
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| I'm married. When I ejaculate after intercourse the semen does not come out in a gush but seems to just trickle out. Consequently the orgasm isnt such a earth shattering thing as it is made out to be. It feels better while masturbating.
Is there something physiologically wrong with my penis.Or should I do something about the way we have sex?
There is nothing wrong with you physiologically. You are correct in that we are programmed by what we have heard & read in the past, as a result of which we have set expectations / mind set. When our real life experience does not match our programmed expectations we feel frustrated, worried, get anxious and some even get depressed. All that you can do is increse the period of foreplay and try out different positions to find which one suits you and your partner the most.
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| What are the psychotropic pills available to get over the problem of pre mature ejaculation ?
The pills that are commonly used are the ones that enhance the serotonin reuptake mechanisma with in the brain. These pills are likely to have complex actions both central and peripheral giving rise to a delay in ejaculation. You may contact a psychiatrist for a valid prescription.
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| Dear Dr.
I have been masturbating since the last 6 years. When I started masturbating, I use to masturbate at least thrice a week or sometimes daily. Now, since last one year, this has been reduced to once in a month. I am an unmarried person. In next one year, I may get married. But, I am worried about my sexual marital life. Whether I can have a good sexual marital life. One of the problem I am facing today is, If I masturbate, in the night when I sleep, my urine get passed, and I am unaware about it. Please tell me what may be the reason for that.
To begin with you ought not to worry about ill effects of masturbation on your physical, mental or sexual (married life), as their are no proven ill effects. Secondly your problem of passing urine and being unaware of the same requires to be examined by a physician, preferably a urologist. This is important because there could be several causes to this symptom and commenting on the same will be inappropriate.
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| DEAR DOCTOR,
SORRY FOR BOTHERING YOU.IAM A COLLEGE STUDENT.
WHEN I WAS 15 YEARS OLD I STARTED MASTURBATING.AT THAT TIME MY ATTRACTION FOR WOMEN'S UNDERGARMENTS SEXUALLY AROUSED ME.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS MY PROBLEM AND ITS BECOME A OBSESSION FOR ME.COULD U HELP ME BY GIVIN ME A PROPER SUGGESTION TO ALL MY QUESTIONS.IS IT SAFE HAVING SEX WITH A PROSTITUTE USING A CONDOM OR IS IT TOTALLY BETTER TO AVOID IT. IT WOULD BE VERY HELPFUL IF U CAN GIVE ME A DETAILED SUGGESTION.
UR SITE IS A VERY HELPFUL AND INSPIRING !!
CONGRATS !!!!
Many thanks for the complements. You are suffering from fetishism - a sexual perversion where sexual arousal & gratification is brought about by use of other persons clothes, etc. You will require to consult a sex counsellor or a psychiatrist as you will require to go through a detailed examination and behaviour therapy program to rid this habit. You may also visit our site for a detailed featur on sexual perversions. As regards you wanting to visit a commercial sex worker the choice is yours, however there is no garuntee that wearing a condom will protect you from acquiring HIV/AIDS.
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| I am a male of 20 yrs age.I have a unique problem.The areolar region around my nipples(round dark circular region)is abnormally large(around 6 cm diameter).It started increasing since the age of 13 yrs.Nnow though it is not increasing I feel awkward to move about open chested in front of anybody.I have been masturbating quite intensely for the last 7-8 yrs(now it has become around 3 times a day).What is the cause and solution to my problem? I also have another doubt that if I keep masturbating at this rate will it have any ill effect on sperm count etc.
Since you are otherwise physically healthy you have no reason to worry about a large areolar size. These are normal anatomical variants and should not be treated as abnormal. One has to accept ones natural form, only this will provide you relief. Masturbation at the fequency you mantion is unlikely to cause any harm to you either physically, mentally or sexually.
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| DEAR DOC.
I am 22yrs of age masturbating nearly 1-2 times a week or 2-3 times a month. My habit of masturbating is on bed . Is it harmful masturbating on bed . Will it effect my sperm count. Further 1) What should be the real frequency of masturbation 2) How to increase my sperm count - any exercise /diet .3) How are the sperms produced and at what speed 4) What should I do after masturabating /post masturbating ? Please reply as soon as possible.
Many thanks for the question. masturbation is a normal practice so long as it does not become an compulsive activity. Your method is in no way going to harmful to you. Each individual has unique needs and has a choice to choose his/her frequency of masturbation. There are individuals who masturbate once or twice a day without any difficulties. Sperms are produced in the testes and along with few other chemicals forms semen. Semen (including sperms ) are produced continuously. There is no indication in you rcase to want to increase the speed of naturally occuring process.
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| I have pimple type boils on my testis which sometimes get infected and burst.what is it ?
These boils that you describe are called maculo-papular lesions in medical terms. Such leisions could be caused by either an infection, allergy, contact dermatitis, etc. To be sure of the diagnosis and thus get the right treatment you will require to get yourself examined from a dermatologist. The earlier the better as you have mentioned that they get infected and burst, which is likely to further increase the problem.
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| During the intercourse, I encounter a ticklish feeling in my penis.Is this normal or I have to consult my doctor.
Getting such sensations are to be considered if they are present only during the intercourse and do not persist later. If latter is the case either you or your partner could have an infection that may require to be treated in which case getting a docotrs opinion will help.
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| I'm married for past 2 years but cud not perform proper intercourse with my wife till now because she does not enjoy it at all and it pains her too much and untolerable.
Now, I want to have a child thru artificial insemination.So,pls. suggest me good clinics/doctors in DELHI.
Your wife seems to be suffering from dsypareunia. The cause could be either psychological or due to organic abnormalities of structures in and around vagina. This will require a detailed examination from a gyenaecologist. For artificial inseminisation you will require to make inquiries with major (corporate) hospitals in Delhi or visit the AIIMS. Alternatively you may take guidance from your family physician.
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| My penis is bend in an erect state. What's the range of tolerable bend I haven't understood how a straight vagina can intake very errect, hard but curved penis?
Firstly no penis erect or flacid is absolutely straight. Secondly in an erect state the penis does harden, though it never assumes the properties akin to a steel rod. There is fair bit of flexibility that allows a bend penis to enter the vagina without difficulty during intercourse. Finally the vagina is not straight either (A whole baby is delivered through it). Be assuered that you are unlikely to face any dfficulties.
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| I have been visiting massage parlours in Delhi for past five years.There after they fondle & masturbate you till you ejaculate. I have come to like this.I am not able to discontinue visiting these parlours and have an acute guilt feeling as I am married for 13 years & have two kids. Advise.
Human beings are distinctly human in that they have been bestowed upon the the gift to choose the actions of their choice irrespective of the situational demands. You too can will to choose to avoid acting on external temptations when you make a firm choice. The fact that you have a well setteled family should actually be the very reason to do so. When you choose to make a fresh start you will feel the positive consequences of the same which in turn shall encourage you to live a life with dignity leaving no scope what so ever for guilt.
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| Dear Doctor,
I am a 27 years old unmarried man. I have never had sex. My Height is 6.1 ft. ,weight 76 kg. and I am very fair with masculine body.
MY PROBLEM:
My penis during flacid state is only 1/2 inch long and during erection it is only 2 inches long. Further the skin of my panies is very dark inspite of my other body being fair.
What can I do to increase the size of my penis?
Will I be able to have sex with my current size of just 2 inches?
Whether you are able to have sex or not will depend upon co-operation from your partner. The vagina is most sensetive in its outer third and hence a lengthy penis is not required. Scientifically it has been proved that intercourse is possible even with flacid penis (with cooperation from your partner). Finally in your case it may be useful to consult a urologist to get an opinion about the length as well as pigmentation that you describe. It may be required to rule out hormonal dysfunctions.
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| I used to masturbate 3-4 times in a week.Is masturbation is harmful?
Masturbation is not harmful in any way to ones physical, psychological or mental health. You may continue to derive pleasure from this completely normal; practice as long as you desire to.
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| I have been married but dont have a child.During analysis I found that my sperm count is very low.Is there any solution to problem apart from surgery.
Surgery is unlikely to increase your counts in any way. The best way out is to consult a infertility expert and ask for an artficial inseminisation. Here good quality, viable sperms will be isolated from your semen and transeferred by the doctor into your wife when she is most likely to ovulate leading to a conception. We wish you best in the same.
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| Premature ejaculation - tried many times the stop method but not getting the results please answer my query what do I do?
In your case the stop-start technique does not seemed to have worked out. This could be due to wrong use of the technique. However if that is not the case then you may want to try the squeeze method or alternatively get a prescription from a psychiatrist for certain types of psychotropic medications that when tken few hours before anticipated sexual activity will delay the ejaculation.
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| what is the period in a girl's menstruation cycle when can she get pregnant?
The average length of a normal regular menstrual cycle is 28 days. But commonly women have irregular cycles that could last longer or shorter. In a normal 28 day cycle the ovulation is on the 14 th day following the menses, but in daily life this can be accurately calculated only by complex methods undre able guidance from an expert. Sex few days before and after the expected date of ovulation is most likely to cause conception.
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| I've been married for 5 years. During sex I ejaculate within a minute or half. Kindly explain me Stop Start And Squeeze technique and other methods of controling edjaculation. Thanks.
The squeeze method is used just before an anticipated orgasm (ejaculation). Here one (ideally the partner)requires to squeeze the portion above the glans so as to stop the ejaculation. Once this is done successfully, the couple may take rest for some time and slowly involve them selves in fore play. Similarly the stop-start technique involves stimulation via foreplay up to the point of anticipated orgasm, when the couple signals each other to withdraw from further stimulation for a brief period of time. This allows the penis to become partially flacid and after sometime the process can be repeated. The other way out is to get a psychiatrist to prescribe medications that delay the ejaculation.
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| Dear Doctor,
I wish to know which period is absolutly safe for having sex, and how can I increase my duration of performing foreplay. I have tried few capsules but they seems be not working on me. I have very average health and I wish to make love for a longer time . Thanks.
The absolute safe periods for having sex require complex calculations based on the partners length of the menses. You will require to meet a expert for the same (or visit our site again as shortly we are adding a detailed feature on this topic). Foreplay can be prolonged for as long as a couple wishes to and if premature ejaculation is a problem then the intensity of the foreplay may be decreased periodically to avoid reaching orgasm too soon.
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| I am 28 years of old and is planning to get married now.I masturbate from the age of 15. When I lie on my back and masturbate i find that my penis can't stand erect on its own and i feel that it won't go into any vagina due to the lack of strength. I am a premature ejaculator also. So far I never had intercourse in my life. Could u please tell me if it is a clinical problem and if so which will be a good hospital in mumbai to treat this.
Your description does not give rise to any suspicion of you having a clinical problem that requires treatment (unless you get no erection at all, which you have not said is thae case). In the position that you describe it is not likely that ones penis will stand absolutely upright. In any case during an intercourse the erect (yet not upright)penis will have to be guided into the vagina. AS for the premature ejaculation it declines with time. However you could use the stop-start technique and the squeeze methods (see our web site)to overcome the problem. If that does not help you may take medications (prescribed by psychiatrist) that may be taken few hours before sex to delay the ejaculation.
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| I have been talking to this girl who stays in mangalore for the past year. Last week, we decided to meet at a hotel near mangalore.
In the hotel room, we could not resist and started to hug and kiss each other but we did not have any intercourse. This continued for around
2 hours. I put my forefinger into her and when it was around 3/4 to fully inside her, she just felt a lot of terrible pain inside her. What could be the problem?? Even i had got very excited during this and i felt some kind of pain in my testicles only after we left the room. But i had no pain during the hugging and kissing.
The same thing has happened with us on an earlier occassion also.
What is the cause of her pain??
Is it normal for her to have such pain?
(She told me that she was in her 6th day)
Would this affect her having a normal sex life
and a baby??
Why do my testicles pain only after the
encounter??
Please do let me know as she is
very nervous about this.
Thanks for visiting our site. It is possible for your friend to sense some pain early during sexual acts. The pain could be due to you having touched a sensetive area. If the problem persists you may want to rule out an infection which is causing a low grade inflamation of the vaginal wall which leads to pain on touching. As regards your query some discomfort in the testes is to be expected following sexual act. This is generally short lasting and self limiting. You have no reason to worry about it. One final word for the two of you is to be gentle during sex as being to forceful will cause irritation of local tissues causing discomfort.
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| I have my foreskin intact.If i pull it back and touch the penis, it pains. Is this normal? I get worried on thinking about sexual intercourse.I am worried if it pains the same way as it does now, during intercourse. So,when I masturbate, I dont touch my penis(inside the fore skin). Please tell me whether this problem is normal.
Under normal circumstances touching the glans should not be discomforting. Unfortunately it is difficult to comprehend which area is giving rise to pain in your case. It might be worth it to get a surgeon to get your penis examined, as if there is any infection causing the problem it could be treated.
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| I used to mastubrate once a day. I only want to know that whether it causes any harm. I also want to know whether kissing is harmful or not.
Masturbation will in no way affect your physical, mental or sexual helth. As for kissing it is a safe prectice when done with trusted individuals. To induldge in kissing with a person from high risk category (commercial sex workers)is putting your self at the risk of acquiring HIV & STD causing agents, all of which are transmitted via body fluids.
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| I am mastrubating since the age of 15. But from recent years I have been experiencing a peculiar kind of problem. After mastrubation I feel very tireddue to which I sleep more. Some dark circles appear on underside of my eyes which clearly shows the weakness. I am very much tensed because I am going to be married next month.Will it affect my married life?
Masturbation is practiced by over 90% of men all over the world. Scientifically there are no proven ill effects on ones physical, mental or sexual health. Masturbation is a physical activity in it self and like an exercise following which it is normal to feel tired and sleepy. Unfortunately you are harbouring too many irrational worries on this account and hence may not be sleeping well, which then shows up in the form of dark circles below your eyes. The best remeady for you will be to relax and look forward to your marraige.
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| I am not able to get a firm erection most of the time. What can I do to get a good hard erection ?
The answer to your problem depends on several factors - is this so when you try to masturbate or is it so while having intercourse with your partner, etc. For getting a good erection one ought to be patient and indulge in prolonged fore play. Also it is important to be inovative during fore play to bring about novelty (routine activity can get boring). You will want to discuss your sexual fantasies with your spouse and act on the same. Many a times we do not communicate our sexual fantasies to our partners thinking that they may be too bizzare or may not be taken well by the partner, but fantasies are only fantasies and if acting out on them in private settings with ones trusted partner help improve sexual performance, one ought to do so.
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| I started masturbating only after 19yrs of age. I used to do it 2-3 times a day and still continue to do so. I also have a tremendous urge to have sex but I havent done so till now. Though unfortunately everyone says that such feelings are normal I feel this is excessive and wish to control it. Please suggest some homeopathic/ayurvedic/allopathic medicine to control my sexual urges.
Masturbation is a normal practice until such time that one becomes its slave. You will want to assign time for thinking and acting out on your sexual fantasies e.g. half an hour in the morning and night. This will allow you to concentrate on your other routines like academics etc during rest of the day. Unfortunately mental will and discipline can not be improved by medicines.
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| I recently tried 2 hav sex with my girl friend but was so anxious that I could'nt get proper errection which I do get when i masturbate
Please advice me
It is natural for you to nat have performed well as one can not have to opposite emotions work at the same time, i.e. you can not be excited and anxious at the same time. In your case the latter was dominant. Please find out the source of anxiety (which can be any thing - from fear of failure to satisfy partner to fear of pregnancy, etc) and tackle it.
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| Is there any relation between masturbating and pimples? because I have observed that after a day or so of masturbating I have pimples on my face.
There is no connection what so ever between pimples and masturbation. Kindly take advice from a skin specialist to treat pimples.
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| Dear Dr.
I a married person about 12 years and have 2 kids. the problem is as under:-
Early discharge of Semen during the intercourse. What is the reason of this. I request your early advice on your site. Any medicineis to be taken, please prescsribe me.
You have a problem called premature ejaculation which can be treated by adopting certain behvioural modificatins like the stop-start technique or the squeeze method (both are featured on our site). Also you may want to meet a psychiatrist to get a prescription for certain medicines that will help delay the ejaculation.
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| Dear Doctor,I masturbate twice everyday, at times also thrice. My weight is only 48kg. Is that harmful to my health. Will that affect my married sexual life. Please advice me.
Masturbation is a normal practice. There is no way in which you will suffer from any ill effects in either physical, mental,sexual or married life due to the same.
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| I am married with two kids.Igo for body massage once aweek for last five years. After massage the massears there ejaculate me with their hands.Then they wipe me off with a towel they had used for others similarly.I want to know [a] how I can give up this habit as I feel guilty because of my wife, [b] am I putting myself to risk of any STD or HIV.
Thanks for the query. The fact that an unclean towel used by others is being used definitly puts you at risk of acquiring HIV. With regards you wanting to stop the activity it is a matter of mental will and discipline which you will want to exercise. You may neet a psychiatrist or a sex counsellor for learning mind control techniques.
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| Dear sir,
I am unmarried and have been masturbating since the age of 10.Intially I was not having any ejaculation.I first ejaculated when I was 13.just six months back, ihad a chance of sexual intercourse twice.but i failed in having erection but ejaculated without intercourse.i masturbate daily and i have full erection and ejaculation.please clarify the following queries:
1. the reason for not having erection during intercourse
2. will i be having any problem of infertility or impotence.
i have been practicing stop and start method and also prevent ejaculation during masturbation by pressing the perinieum point of the anus as prescribed in the book \"art of sexual ecstasy\" by MARGO ANAND\".are these methods advisable.
i heard from my married friend that during intercourse the thread like skin at the back of the penis connecting the glans to the shaft will get cut.is it true.please mail to me.
To begin with you probably failed to have an erection at the time of intercourse because you might have been very anxious. This in no way means you are impotent or infertile. the stop start technique is scientifically correct but the same can not be said of the other method that you describe (none of the standard medical texts describe the same). Finally sexual activity when performed vigourously (some like it that way) can cause slight damege to the prepuce.
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| I recently had sex with a prostitute. I used condoms but I sucked her lips and nipples and licked her vagina and she sucked my penis.
Is there any danger of my contacting any disease particularly AIDS?
You will do well to avoid repeating the activities you describe. HIV is transmitted via all body fluids including saliva. This does could put you in risk for HIV. This does not mean you will have alredy got HIV but it might be worthwhile to under go tests for personal reassuarance after a few months (it takes a few weeks to months for the test to be positive).
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| Women's undergarments turn me on. I have stolen at lest 20 panties during the last 2 years.I sniff and lick the panties of my mom and sister.
Is there something terribly wrong with me?
You are suffering from a perversion called \"fetishism\". You will require to take professional help of a psychiatrist or a sex counsellor to learn cognitive behavioral approaches to overcome the same.
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