 | DELi am having my girlfreind . every 2 or 3 day i have oral sex with my girl freind . that girl licked my penis and sometimes she sips my sperm in her mouth . she also have oral sex with my other two freinds(with my ignorance) in which one is married she doing the same thing with them . but we never have sex with her .
now she is going to be married within 6 months .i am cofused that will it harmful or us in future as she licks the penis of mine and my other two freinds.. if we continue with her then would it harm us in future or in present . i think she wants more sex thats why she is not satisfied with one , when we have sex something is loses from her vagina some sticky sticky white. when i had ask her then she told me that its nothing its a sympton of her arousal . i think that it is some type of disease if it is like that then please suggest us what should we do now ,shall we continue with her or leave that girl.we are also confused bcoz we hugs her and we smooch her so please tell us if we smooch her then it harm us or not. please help us .
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| i have very little facial hair. although 25 i dont shave. please tell me if this is normal. what can i do to grow facial hair?
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| is it necessary to masturbate on a regular basis?what if one dosent masturbate?
Whether to masturbate or not is ones own choice. There are no ill effects of not masturbating, however semen formation continues 24 hours a day and if one is not married the only way the semen can let it self out is through wet dreams or nocturnal emissions. Be ready for the latter and do not get alarmed if it happens.
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| I am getting married in 1 month. I here there are three opening in vagina and penis should be entered in correct slot. please advise.
Also my foreskin is a bit tight how to loosen it.
Shall I use K Y jelly for 1st few intercourses?
The vagina has only one opening and to get further information please meet your doctor who could show you anatomical pictures to give you the right undersanding.
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| I am not able to have intercourse. I lose my erection whenever I try to penetrate. My wife and I have tried going to a sexologist, gynaec, tried medicines etc. but to no avail. The gynaec we visited asked my wife to apply some gel so that the penetration could be easier. Please advise as this has caused a lot of frustration for both of us
You are suffering from premature ejaculation and should consult a psychiatrist who will explain you techniques like the stop start or squeeze method. Also the psychiatrist will be able to prescribe you medications which when taken a few hours before intercourse will delay the ejaculation.
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| Is stenford drug by Himalaya drug comp. will effcetive for recovering from premature Ejaculation. i also used start-stop tech. but does''t get so much improvement.
The stop start method works only when done correctly and the timing is right. You must consult a psychiatrist not only to learn these techniques but also because the psychiatrist can prescribe you medications which when taken few hours before the intercourse, delay the ejaculation. As for the drug you mention please check with the company (not all claims are true).
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| During start of intercourse,at first I get erection but the erection falls after a few minutes.At the time of pierceing the penis it is half erect. Hence I am not able to do sex with a condom. After a few seconds I remove the penis and tie a string at the end of penis so that it remains erected upto the last.Also I sometimes ejaculate halfway during intercourse. Please advice a remedy
Tying a string is dangerous as I remeber seeing a patient who slept off with such a string. The next day he presented with a necrotic penis that required amputation. From your description it seems you have premature ejaculation and require to use the sen set erxercises along with the stop start or squeeze methods. If this does not help meet a psychiatrist as the psychiatrist can prescribe you medications which when taken few hours before the intercourse, either delay or sustain the ejaculation, as the case may be.
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| last year i had selected for gulf. but in the medical test,they told me that you have VDRL POSITIVE(1:2)(VDRL POSITIVE in the undiluted serum only)
but i checked in other labarotary.but they are telling vdrl negative.is it curable? what i want to do?kindly guide me.
VDRL tests is a test that is positive in those who are infected with the syphilis bacteria. This is a sexually transmitted disease and if you are certain that you have never had sex with someone then the test has to ideally be negative. Sometimes these tests come falsely positive for technical reasons and hence when repeated are found negative. Also the dilution factor is important, higher the dilution more the chances of one being positive, in your case the dilution was only 1:2 which is not very significant. Confirm this with your doctor. Once again I repeat, if you have never been exposed to unsafe sex, the chances are that you have no problem, in which case you must stop worrying and look ahead in life.
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| i am getting to excited at the time of having intercourse hence premature ejeculatin ,so can not satisfy my partner.can you suggest some way how i can prolong intercourse.also my size of penis is small,is there any way to enlarge it.
You are suffering from premature ejaculation which is common amongst many a men. This can be easily treated with certain behavioral modifications like the stop-start & the squeeze techniques. Both of these are featured on our site (use our site search engine). If either of the methods do not work then you may get a psychiatrist to prescribe you certain medications that may be taken few hours before anticipated sex. These medications effectively prolong/delay the time before one ejaculates. The size of the penis has nothing to with successful intercourse as only the outer third of the vagina is sensitive to stimulation. No treatment is available for increasing the size of the penis.
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| I have been married last 4 years ago and I am still to have a Child. When me & my wife went for a checkup My wife was absolutely fine and when I took Semen Analysis the result was sperm count:14 million/cc Motility : 50% I was suggested to take Sustanon 250mg Injection once in a month for 4 months After that I tested again and found my Sperm Count to be just 7 million per cc. I am very afraid. Please tell me whether is there any chance to improve the count or can it be improved by any medicine or any natural herbs, vegetables etc., I had a habit of masturbating for the past 10 years once or twice daily. Is there any chance of sterility due to this please clarify? CAN I HAVE A BABY ?
Masturbation has not caused this. This is a separate problem for which no effective cure is available. Since your count is low, it is advisable that you meet a infertility expert and consider artificial inseminization, where the doctor could isolate your good quality sperms and use them for conception.
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| What is uretheral intercourse, and is it safe safe?
There is nothing like urethral intercourse. Intercourse requires the penis to enter an orfice like vagina or anus or in case of oral sex the mouth. Urethra is too small for such a possibility.
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| Hi,
I am a 25 year old male living in India. I have never had sexual intercourse with anybody in my life. I have been masturbating since the age of 15.
Sometimes after masturbating a burning sensation starts to develop at the tip of my penis. It goes away by itself only after I urinate and sometimes after I excrete.
This problem does not occur everytime I masturbate. I have observed that it sometimes occurs on occasions when my penis is not well lubricated. How do I get rid of this problem?
Is there a possiblity that I have contracted some sexual transmitted disease? Or is there a problem with my penis? Is it possible to contract STD or AIDS via masturbation (masturbating alone).
Again I have never had sexual intercourse nor do i indulge in any high risk behaviour.
-KD
A lot of times during masturbation one need not necessarily get the required orgasm. As you yourself understand that inadequate lubrication is one such reason. Also, one need not feel good every time one masturbates. There are various reasons for it -- inadequate excitation, no lubrication and no proper release. You do not have a sexually transmitted disease, but in case you have the doubt and there are signs like infection or prolonged pain, we suggest you see a doctor.
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| what sex myth generaly men have about his organ?
The greatest myth a man has about his organ is the size of the organ. It is generally perceived that the bigger the penis, the greater satisfaction he will get during sexual intercourse.
The other would be that if the organ is bent or slanting in a particular direction, there is a problem.
These two are largely the two most common myths men have on their organ. Well, about sex and sexuality, there are a great many myths!!
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| i have very little facial hair. although 25 i dont shave. please tell me if this is normal. what can i do to grow facial hair?
Facial hair is primarily due to congenital reasons and hormonal factors. If in your family there is a tendency to have less facial hair, you probably would not sport too much of facial hair. At the same time if you are stressed or are going through some great emotional stress, it is possible that it would affect your hair growth. In which case you can see an endocrinologist.
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| REsp sir,
I have a habit of masturbating more than twice a day. Is that going to affect my health? also, pl do tell me how can i get rid of this habit?
If you are comfortable masturbating twice a day, so be it! You will have to stop the moment it becomes too painful or becomes a disturbing/compulsive influence in your life. Masturbation does not affect ones health. But overdoing something to the extent of overtiring yourself will probably make you feel temporarily weak.
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| HI!MY PROBLEM IS JUST INCREDIBLE.ON MARCH 1ST,I HAD FEVER AND 2 DAYS LATER,I LOST INTEREST IN SEX GREATLY.MY ERECTIONS WERE ALSO VERY WEAK.I''M GAY AND I;M VERY COMFORTABLE BEING GAY.i had tremendous interest in sex.but now it has decreased.can it happen at 15,when hormones should bne racing at the speed of light?i''m so depressed dat i tried to commit suicide.i used to get erections involuntarily before i knew.now,i take 2 mins and dat too is not a strong erections.i masturbate about 2 times a day.i started it when iwas 8 years old.i always had great libido and now i''m really depressed.how can i get back my exceptional drive and ertections?i''ve lost all hpopes.i contacted a sexologit here ,in bangalore.,on telephone.he was very busybit he told it was temporary and i was just distracted.i didt understand him.how can i get distracted from sex when i was so romantic,passionate,with great libido?i''m 5''9 and i stopped growing 8 months ago.is all these things due to hormonal imbalancement or is it psychological?where in the hell can i get help?i also shooed away my BF when i''m not sexually very capable.but till now i''m a virgin.what has happened 2 me?leese tell me what kind of treatment i can go infor.tell me why i''m not gettung erections like a normal teen an'' interestd in sex like a normal teen/ HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!
DO NOT PANIC! Well, I know it is easy for me to say that, when what I understand is essentially your lost essence is giving you sleepless nights. But, believe me, it is really a temporary phase, just as your doc mentioned. There is some trigger that has lead to a loss of your libido suddenly. Are you in love with someone else? The fact that you packed off your BF indicates that probably you need to reconsider what is happening in your emotional life. May be you do not want to accept it, but I think it would be fair to yourself to sit and think of the reason. Many a times, the reasons are there staring at us and we do not want to accept it. It is either that or you may be suffering from a severe illness. But from what you wrote it is least likely. Remember, it is not our body which controls our moods, it is our moods that control our body. Straigthen your mood and everything will fall in place. All the best!
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| It would be good to know who answers the sex queries. Is it someone qualified. if so, who?
We have a psychiatrist, a heart specialist, an ENT surgeon and a counsellor, who answer these questions.
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| How does a woman become pregnant and whether one intercourse is sufficient for a woman to become pregnant.
A woman becomes pregnant when the sperm meets with the ovum and conception happens. For a woman to be pregnant, she has to be ovulating, which may depend on her menstrual cycle. The only time she does not stand the risk of becoming pregnant is during her menses. So, if she has intercourse during the unsafe days of the month, which is the ovulating days, she stands the risk of becoming pregnant.
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| is masturbation healthy or having sex more healthy. my parents had told me that masturbating affects your brain cells.they say this because one person in our family had got mad as he used to masturbate everyday.
i want to know from you whether having sex everyday or masturbating everyday affects one's health or no? or does any one of them affect our health. whenever my penis is loaded with semens i cant concentrate in my studies unless i masturbate. can i know the reason for this and can you tell me how to overcome this.
Masturbation is done by over 90 % of males and is absolutely normal. Masturbation does not have any ill effects on ones mind, body or sexual health. Most young males masturbate at least once a day. Only compulsive masturbation at the cost of other activities is however abnormal. It will be advisable for you to visit our site and get qualified information from our sex and sexuality channel. If masturbating helps you release sexual tension and study better, there is no reason for you stop it.
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| I have not had a wet dream yet, and when i ejaculate its not white how come?
You have not mentioned whether you masturbate or not but since you have mentioned you ejaculate it is presumed by us that you do so. Wet dreams are common only when no other form of sexual act (masturbation or intercourse) is used to ejaculate the semen. Thus the testes is full and is emptied during a nocturnal dream state. Semen is not absolutely white in color and has a yellow/cream color tinge to it and it is something you should not worry about.
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| I have been masturbating since the last 8/9 years. Since the last 4/5 years, I have started getting pimples/acne on my face and sometimes on back, whenever I masturbate. The acne/pimples reduce if I dont masturbate for about a fortnight or so. I would like to know the reason of this. I also would like to know if this problem will continue even after my marriage, i.e. even after I have a regular sexual intercourse. After masturbating, I also feel some burning feeling in my eyes, like the eyes are strained.
Please provide me some solution for this problem.
Just because two things seem to happen at one time does not mean they are related to each other. Masturbation is a normal practice done by as many as 90% of the males. Masturbation in no way affects ones physical, mental or sexual health. It does not cause acne and the latter is caused by infection of the sebaceous glands of the skin. For more details on acne, log on to our site www.goodhealthnyou.com for seeing detailed articles on this topic.
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| Hi,I've been reading through all the queries and your replies. I had posted a query day before yesterday, (no reply as yet), and my query was the same as quite a lot of other queries that I read about the body feeling hot or feeling tired or sleepy after masturbating. I too have been masturbating since I was 14/15 years of age, like most of the writers. Now I also have a MAJOR PROBLEM of pimples/acne everytime I masturbate. In fact, I have reduced, and even totally stopped masturbating fearing a pimple/acne. Now that so many people are querying about this same problem, dont you think the pimples and masturbation, somehow could be related. And maybe some solution to the same can be achieved with some research, for which I wouldnt mind being tested. You have been replying the same to everybody, i.e. nothing such has been clinically proven and it is healthy to masturbate, etc. etc. Now that a lot of people face this problem, it could be real. Please comment.
Masturbation is a normal practice done by as many as 90% of the males. Masturbation in no way affects ones physical, mental or sexual health. Acne is caused by the infection of sabaceous glands within the skin and this is not related to masturbation. Please check our site for articles on acne for further clarification. Enough research has gone into finding out the harmful effects of masturbation and none is yet proved.
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| Dear sir I have heard about mastrubation in college. how is it done? Is it harmful?
Masturbation is a normal practice and is performed by self stimulation of the penile organ leading to a point of orgasm (ejaculation). All claims of masturbatin being harmful are mere misconceptions.
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| How does a woman become pregnant and whether one intercourse is sufficient for a woman to become pregnant.
A woman becomes pregnant when intercourse occurs at the time of ovulation which is around fourteen days prior to the next menstruation in a regular 28 day cycle. As cycles are likely to be longer or shorter,one cannot be easily sure of the exact time of ovulation. Hence sexual activity during the expected time (few days prior or after the expected date of ovulation)of ovulation is most likely to result in conception. One intercourse thus may or may not lead to conception.
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| i had given my problem earlier to you now i am giving my full details to you that i am a 22 year boy with height 160cm and weight 85 kg,looking more fatty and i am having the breast like women due to this i feel inferiority complex and i couln't remove my clothes in front of my family members ,freinds . i want to swim but due to this problem i cant swim . sometimes i think whether this problem give some harmful effect on my sexual life in future . last five years back i consulted a endocrinologist and he suggested me a test of testesterone and estradiol. reports of are shown as below:
testesterone(T): 3.2 nglml normal values(3.0-9.0)
estradiol (E2):40.0 pglml normal values(15-45)
he also suggested me some fat burning capsules but they didnt give any effect on my fat.he told me that your hormones are imbalanced . so i would like to know from your side whether this problem can be cured and if yes please suggest me what should i do . that doctor also told me about surgery of my chest but i will not prefer surgery i want this problem can be cured by natural treatment. give some delhi based doctors address.
i am also worried about my penis size ,its about 4 inches in errection although i am having sex with my girlfreind but she didn't ask me anything about it . will it possible to increase my penis size ,now a days advetisements are like that penis size can be increased without any medicines it can be increased all by natural methods . i would like to know fron your side whehther its a truth or just a myth. pleaas solve my query .
You have several problems, the answers to which are as follows:
1)Your body weight and investigation reports suggest that you are suffering from obesity rather than an hormonal problem. Surgical interventions are not easy under these circumstances and it is best to use the time-tested techniques of exercise routines and diet-charts. Dr. Dean Ornish's book \"Reversing your heart disease\" has chapters on nutrition and exercise which will help you. Alternatively, you may contact fitness/nutrition consultants.
2)You seem to be a victim of sexual misconceptions and be assured that your penile size is perfectly normal.
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| Dear Sir,
I have been mastrubating for the past five years on a daily basis. somtimes even more than twice a day. is this harmfull for my sex life after marriage. I have have heard that excessive mastrubation leads to the bending/curving of the penis, which prevents proper insertion during sex. will this reduce my satisfaction level and does it have any implications of any sort. I will be gratefull if you could kindly throw some light on this as it has been worrying me for quite some time.
Thanks
Akash
You seem to be a victim of misconceptions as mas turbation is a normal practise, that does not affect the physical or mental health of an individual. No penis is absolutely straight and to think that masturbation is the cause of bending/curving is inappropriate.Be assured that it will not affect your future sexual/married life.
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| hi doc.
I have a 3.5\" long erect penis.I am not married and worried about it.Which methods work to get it enlarged to at least the normal size? What are the normal to large sizes of penises? Which non surgical methods do I use to enlarge my penis? Is it necessary to get circumcised?
Does the vaccume pump work to enlarge the penis.?
Tell me all you can about this enlargement part as well as about circumcision.
thanks.
prashant malhotra. mumbai
The length of the penis has no correlation with sexual performance or satisfaction, unless it is too small.This does not seem to be so in your case. There are no scientifically proven methods to increase the length of the penis. Falling prey to such claims in commercial advertisements could have adverse effects. Vacuum pump device or
circumcision will in no way change the length.The length varies from individual to individual and hence comparisons are unwarranted.
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| I am a 26 year old bachelor. I have foreskin on my penis which does not stretch back on erection. It is painful when I force it while cleaning the area. The problem is strange,since the foreskin has like grown over the past 3 years.Prior to that I did not have any problem. Nowadays there is also a lot of itching on the area under the foreskin. Should this problem be corrected surgically and if yes then who should I consult?
Dear Bhaskar,
The description of your problem suggests that you could be suffering from phimosis/ paraphimosis.Conservative treatment is possible only in the earlier stages, after which surgical intervention is a must, in which case you would require to contact a consulting general surgeon.
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| I asked this question two or three days back but I did not receive any answer in my email address.Could you please recommend a medicine available in India which can perform at least a little bit of the functions of viagra
Unfortunately there is no such medicine available in India. You are cautioned against falling prey to any such claims made in commercial advertisements regarding the same.
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| I am suffering freom erectile dysfunction since last 8-10 months, before this I was totally normal.I want to know if there is any medicine for the same.
There could be many causes for erectile dysfunction, for example 1)physical disease 2)medications that you may be taking 3)excessive consumption of alcohol or other drugs of abuse
4)physical or psychological stress 5)Not getting along well emotionally with the sexual partner etc. For getting relieved of the erectile dysfunction, you need to know which of the above causes are operating in you and once recognised, the cause can be specifically tackled. Otherwise, randomly using any medicine without tackling the root cause may be in fact harmful.I would suggest that you consult your family doctor first who would help you delineate the cause of the erectile dysfunction and then seek a remedy accordingly. You are most welcome to send us back a further query with more details if you so wish.
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| For the past 6 months I have been ejaculating in the night or rather early mornings once every week. Is there any way I can prevent this as it is affecting me alot .
Your problem is that of nocturnal emissions.Semen is produced 24 hour a day and is stored in the seminal vesicles. The semen thus stored is released through either 1)sexual intercourse or 2)masturbation. If either of the two are not practised, the semen accumulated in the seminal vesicles gets released during a nocturnal dream (fantasy). If you are unmarried, regular masturbation is likely to stop the nocturnal emissions. If you prefer not to masturbate, nocturnal emissions could continue, in which case, you should consider this to be a normal phenomenon and not worry about it.
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| frequency of intercourse since diabteic last 2 yrs(140 post lunch)
Dear Raju, kindly post your query to us again in adequate detail, as the nature of your problem is not clear. Looking forward to supporting you.
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| The length and thickness of my penis is less when compared to people of similar age group. I want to know whether any medicine exist which can improve the length and thickness of my penis. If yes, please suggest a suitable remedy.
The length and the thickness of the penis has no relation to sexual performance or gratification. There are no medications available for increasing the length or thickness of the penis.You may visit a urologist to rule out hormonal dysfunctions which could lead to such problems.
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| I am in my mid thirties and unable to acheive sustained erection. I am on medication for hypertension -I find it difficult to discuss this issue with my doctor.
Dear Rajesh,
Some antihypertensives are known to affect sexual function. However you have not mentioned the name of the medicine you are on, in your query. It is advisable that you discuss the matter with your doctor freely, as afterall doctors are well trained in dealing with such issues in many of their patients. In fact, once you mention your problem to your doctor, he will be the one to change your medicine or its doses so that you are relieved of your problem.
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| I am married for the last 3 1/2yrs and have a 2 1/2yr old baby.I am suffering from premature ejaculation problem.I have tried different methods like stop & start, pinching the tip of the penis to stop ejaculation but with no concrete result.Please help.Also provide names of medicines or suggest the name of some reputed sexologist in calcutta alongwith tel. no.
Your problem of premature ejaculation can also be treated with medicines taken few hours prior to sexual intercouse. You will require to meet a psychiatrist in Calcutta for a valid prescription.
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| Can you recommend a medicine available in India similar to that of Viagra to obtain erection?
Unfortunately, there is no known medicine with effects equivalent to Viagra , in India.
It is advisable that you avoid falling prey to commercial advertisements claiming the same.
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| What myths do men generally have about their sexual organs?
The most commonest misconceptions are as follows:
1)Short length of the penis means reduced sexual performance, reduced gratification for the sexual partner.
2)Masturbation leads to loss of energy,weakness, physical and mental illness, is sinful, can cause AIDS / STD, affects the penile length , girth and shape.
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| I have high cholesterol problem.I have been taking Lipidex,a homeopathic medicine and it has no side effects.Recently, my Doctor(allopath)has prescribed an allopathic medicin,viz.,LIPISTAT 10 mg(Lovastatin).Kindly let me know whether this medicine will cause any side effect in respect to sexual activity,especially erection.
Dear Nox,
Thanks for your query. We have searched the research database for you and found that majority of the research studies suggest that lovastatin does not impair sexual (testicular) function.With respect to the homeopathic medicine, we have forwarded this query to our expert from that field and would get back to you shortly.
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| Actully from last 1 month I am manstrubating , and I thought becaue of this I got a problem of acne , but you said that as under:
\"It was believed to cause such disorders as acne, blindness, and insanity. Today, however, we know that masturbation is not harmful. It does not cause any physical or mental disorder. \"
I show my problem to doc.
When I am not mastrubating I feel quite healthy , but when I mastrubate my skin becomes hot , and I also feel same , please help me , is this because of mastrubating.
Dear Rajen,
Masturabation in no way leads to physical or psychological problems. Your acne problem is likely to be completely independent of sexual activity and may require treatment from a skin specialist.
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| I got recently married and facing problems in making love due to premature ejaculation and also that erection is maintained for a long time. Please tell the ideal position for the biggeners and remedy for the above problems. I am in perfect health and have no such family history. Thanking you in anticipation-Ravindra
Premature ejaculation is a common problem for many. However it can be treated effectively using the squeeze technique and the stop-start technique (both of which feature briefly on our site). You may want to get a psychiatrist to help you with the above methods as well as the best position. The psychiatrist could also prescribe you medications that you may take a few hours before sex, so as to delay the ejaculation.
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| I am 25 years old married man and I came to your site with a great hope. My problem is that the size of my penis is very small and it does not get erection for a long time .
I have consulted to a local doctor He has suggested me some tests. The reports are:
1)Semen examination:-a) Colour:- Greyish white. b)volume 3 ml. c) Liquifaction time:- 30 minutes
2) Chemical examination:-a) pH Fructose:- 7.2 mg/dl
3)Microscopic Examination:- a)sperm Count:-Azodspermic millions/ml b) Motility(one Hour):- 0% (c) Abnormal forms:-0% (d) pus cells:- 1 /hpf (e) Epitheial cells:- 1 /hpf (f):-RBC:- absent (g):- Trichomonas:- absent
4) Hormone Profile:-Prolactin Level:- 12.85 ng/ml
5)Testosterone Level(IRMA):-6.8 ng/ml
6) Organism Isolated:- No Growth
Please help me or one day I will commit suicide.
Please reply soon and try to bring me out from this dark world. Gurpreet
Dear Gurpeet,
Size of the penis has no relation what so ever with sexual gratification.
Your problem of not getting an erection for a longer time will require a detailed examination by two experts 1)Urologist and 2)Psychiatrist.
Moreover it is important to meet a specialist as your report mentions azoospermia.
Finally sexual activity can be severly affected by depression, which could be due to several reasons. Given the fact that you have suicidal thoughts it is important that you consult a psychiatrist and tackle this problem at the earliest. It is possible that your sexual performance might improve once your depression is treated.
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| How important is the length of the penis important for good sex & orgasm?
What is the average size of the penis of Indians?
Are there any safe methods to increase the penis length & girth?
Dear Kumar,
That sexual gratification depends upon the length, girth and erectness of the penis is a misconception.
Each individual is unique and penile lengths vary from individual to individual in flacid and erect states. It has been scientifically proved that individuals with shorter flacid penis make up for the same with longer erections at the time of sex.
Also, sexual intercourse is possible with a partially erect penis.
There are no known safe methods to increase the length & girth of penis, and I suggest that you do not get tempted to try out some methods that are marketed without consulting a qualified doctor.
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| Hi,
I am a 25 year old male living in India. I have never had sexual intercourse with anybody in my life. I have been masturbating since the age of 15.
Sometimes after masturbating a burning sensation starts to develop at the tip of my penis. It goes away by itself only after I urinate and sometimes after I excrete.
This problem does not occur everytime I masturbate. I have observed that it sometimes occurs on occasions when my penis is not well lubricated. How do I get rid of this problem?
Is there a possiblity that I have contacted some sexual transmitted disease? Or is there a problem with my penis? Is it possible to contact STD or AIDS via masturbation (masturbating alone).
Again I have never had sexual intercourse nor do i indulge in any high risk behaviour.
-KD
Dear KD,
Masturbation can at times cause irritation of local tissues, leading to some discomfort for a short period. This should not be a cause for worry. Being gentle at the time of masturbation will relieve you of this discomfort.
There is no way in which you will contract STD /HIV by masturbating.
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| My penis is very small. The size is so short, as of a two year old boy. There is no generation of sperm also. Please tell me the reason and what is the treatment to cure it?
Dear Mr jain,
Thanks for visiting our site. The penile size in a flacid state does not matter as far as normal sex life is concerned. It has been proved that people with small penis have normal lengths when erect.
However your inability to ejaculate semen (sperms as you put it) is worthy of further investigations. Kindly consult a urologist and get appropriate hormonal tests done, as any deficiency in the same can be treated with medications, which in turn might positively impact your problem related to lack of semen.
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| whenever my wife gives a blowjob I get a pecular tickling sensation on the front top side of the penis and feel as though I might urinate. Is this phenomena normal? If not then is there any way in which I can over come it?
Dear Jadhav,
The descriptions of your symptoms do not suggest that you have any problem. The sensory nerves are heavily concentrated over the skin of the penis, which might be causing the sensations that you sense. Getting a feeling of wanting to micturate is very common.
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| I am unable ejaculate during intercourse. I am married for the past 11 months.
I have semen ejaculation dreams and in the early mornings.I have seen it its sticky liquid with nasty smell.It has been happening for 5 years.
But never happnes when I have intercourse with my wife.
I have consulted a SEX specilaist who advised me a penile doppler test . After seeing the reports he gave tablets Nuvir . But it did not have any effect.
Later I consulted a Urologist. He gave a Vibrator Therapy.But it did no have any effect.
Now as per doctors advice I am doing a self injection in my penis to mainatin erction for long time.When we recently consulted a gynec for my wife the doctor said the Female membrane still has to open fully.
We need a child badly at any cost. The Urlogist was suggestiong a Artficial insemnation.
Am I impotent.What is my problem ? How should solve it?
Dear Suresh,
Since you get nocturnal emissions and erections it is unlikely that you suffer from impotency.
You might want to get your semen tested as that will give a clue to the precise nature of your problem.
Intercourse is possible event with a partially erect penis & its not required for the female membrane to be fully open for sperms to get into the uterus.
Your problem could be due to low sperm counts which will get detected by a semen test. If the counts are low artificial inseminisation will be the right answer to your problem.
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| I MASTURBATE 3-4 TIMES A WEEK AND I WANT TO KNOW WHETHER THIS WILL CAUSE MEMORY LOSS IN TEENS LIKE US. THIS IS BECAUSE I HAVE EXPERIENCED PROBLEMS IN STUDIES AFTER MY TENTH AND THAT IS WHEN I STARTED MASTURBATING. COULD YOU SUGGEST ME?
THEN SECONDLY,I USUALLY LIKE OLDER WOMEN THAT IS AFTER MARRIAGE SOMETHIN BETWEEN 30-50 YEARS AND I DON'T KNOW WHY.
I USUALLY MASTURBATE FANTASISING OLDER LADIES AND I HAVE EVEN FANTASISED WITH MY OWN AUNTIES AND I HAVE FELT TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM.
I EVEN THOUGHT OF APPROACHING MY OWN AUNTIES FOR A SEXUAL FAVOUR.BUT MANY A TIMES I HAVE FELT GUILTY ABOUT THIS.IAM SCARED THAT SUPPOSE IF I APPROACH THEM FOR AN INTERCOURSE I MAY BE REJECTED AND THEY WILL HAVE A VERY BAD IMPRESSION ABOUT ME.
COULD I ASK FOR A SEXUAL FAVOUR FROM MY OWN RELATIVES?ANDS SUPPOSE IF THEY AGREE CAN I HAVE INTERCOURSE WITHOUT FEELIN GUILT?
I EVEN FANTASISE YOUN GALS OF 9-15 YEARS.I DON'T KNOW IF THIS IS A OBSESSION TO ME.
PLEASE HELP ME WITH A DETAILED ADVICE.
Dear Ashok,
Masturbation is a normal practice and doing so 3-4 times per week will in no way affect your physical / psychological health. Your memory problem is more due to your obsession with sex, which does not allow you to concentrate on your studies. While it is an individual choice when it comes to choosing whom to fantasise about acting out on these fantasies might not be prudent especially when it is against the social norms of the society one lives in. Given the norms of our society it will be in your best interest to avoid getting involved with a relative.
A practical solution is for you to choose a time for sex related issues, i.e. half an hour morning & evening, this will give you the freedom to do other activities like your studies with full concentration during rest of the day.
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| Sir,
I have a habit of masturbating more than twice a day. Is that going to affect my health? If yes, please do tell me how I can get rid of this habit?
Dear Priyaj,
Reasearch on masturbation has shown that it does not cause any ill effects on health. Be assured that if you continue the activity at the frequency you mention, there should be no problem per se.
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| I got married on Dec'99 with a 20 year old girl.We have decided not to have a kid till my wife is 23, but my friends and relatives are forcing to have the first issue as soon as posssible otherwise there will be problem in cocceving later on. Can you suggest me the right way out.
Dear AD,
you have made the right decision and should continue to abide by the same. Problems related to late conception occur when the would be mother is in her thirtiees. In case you feel the pressure of your friends & relatives get them to meet a doctor who could explain them out of their misconceptions.
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| I am in a habit of masturbation quite, often like. I do it 4 to 5 times at a strech, but later I feel the stomach disorder, and pain in passing motions and urine. Also sometimes on the left side of my testis, there occurs a serious pain . I dont know what to do ? and whom to consult?
Dear Bharat,
Masturbation is a normal practice and done by almost all males. The frequency varies from individual to individual, though it is more in younger age groups. You are getting pain in the testes and while passing urine because continuous sexual activity irritates local tissues and organs. It will not occur if you divide your activity i.e. masturbate twice a day.
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| I am in a habit of masturbation quite often. I masturbate 4 to 5 times at a strech, but later I feel a stomach disorder, and pain in passing motions and urine. Also sometimes on the left side of my testis, there occurs a serious pain . I dont know what to do ???? and whom should I consult????
Dear Bharat,
Masturbation is a normal practice. The average number is generally once or twice a day. You are getting pain while passing urine and in testes because you are masturbating to many times at one instance. This is likely to cause irritation to local tissues leading to pain.
The best thing to do is to reduce the number of times you masturbate at one time and divide the activity over the day.
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| I AM A UNMARRIED PERSON. I FEAR MY PENIS SIZE IS ABOUT 5 INCHES ONLY AND I WANT TO INREASE THE SIZE SO, PLEASE SUGEST ME HOW TO INCREASE THE SIZE OF MY PENIS.
Dear Rony,
You have a perfectly normal penile length. Research has shown that sexual gratification does not depend upon length of penis, in fact people with shorter penis have almost the same length as others during erection.
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| Dear Sir,
I want to know that whether this is a problem , as I have wet dreams (sometimes) when I fantasice/see sex movies.
thankyou & obliged
Dear Hemansu,
Wet dreams - also called nocturnal emissions are normal. The semen is produced continuosly and requires an outlet, which is generally in the form of masturbation, sex or nocturnal emissions. If you are unmarried, regular masturbation would stop your nocturnal emissions.
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| I am mastubrating three times a day, from last three years. Will this affect my health, or my married life?
Dear Anubhav,
Masturbation is a normal practice amongst males. The frequency is generally more (as in your case)in the earlier years and goes down as age increases (when it loses its novelty). Be assured that it will not hamper either your physical health or your married life.
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| I masturbulate everyday, you can say that for 365 days. Can this affect my sexual life in future and in what way? Please mail me urgently ?
Dear Sadik,
Masturbation is a normal phenomenon. Indulging in masturbation on a daily basis will not affect your sexual or physical health in any way.
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| What are the symptoms of ghonnoria and what are the medicines and doses for treatment of the disease. Please answer.
Dear Raj,
The common symptoms of ghonnorial infection are:
1)Fever.
2)Purulent discharge and burning micturation.
3)Enlarged lymph nodes in the inguinal region.
This problem is commonly treated with antibiotics. As it is medically unethical to prescribe medicines without examining a patient it is prudent that you consult a skin specialist. However the best way to treat this problem is to avoid getting this sexually transmitted disease in the first place.
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| what are the symptoms of ghonnoria and what are the medicines and doses for treatment of the disease.pl answer.
Please refer to our feature on `Know your STDs\", in which you will find what gonorrhea is all about. As for the treatment of the disease, it would be best to get the advice of an expert on the same.
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| I am 21. My problem is that I still have not grown beard on my face. Why does this occur and what is the remedy?
Dear Vinay,
The two plausible reasons for your problem are:
1)Constitutional - Which means that's the way you are made. There are many who do not have a full grown beard and yet it is perfectly normal & natural.
2)Endocrine problem: This could be a rare cause and you will require to meet a endocrinologist for further guidance.
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| I have a very large varicocele on my left testicle for five years. I also have a problen of urine leakage, around 10 drops of urine leak after I have urinated and put on my pants. For some time I have been having yellowish semen whenever I masturbate.I have never ever had sex in my life. Please tell me wheather I have any STD or is it AIDS. What should I do? Also, whenever I pass stool there is a burning sensation in the anus for 5 minutes.
You have the following problems:
1)Varicocele - For which you ought to contact a urosurgeon. The urologist will also need to examine and find out the cause for the driblling of urine.
2)Your other problem about the colour of semen, STD & AIDS is due to misconceptions . Kindly meet a sex counsellor or a psychiatrist to get detailed explanations. Be assured that since you have not had sex you are unlikely to have STD / AIDS.
3)The burning after stools could be due to a small fissure, please consult a surgeon.
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| I am married for 2 years and we have a son born recently. During intercourse, I ejeculate within 4 to 5 min after a few strokes while my wife does not reach climax. Then she wants tactile stimulation to reach climax. Further she responds very vigourously to tactile stimulation by contracting vaginal muscles while in intercourse, she does not responds so hottly. I would like to inform that my penis becomes maximum of 6 inches long in excited state. Kindly advise me how to satisfy my wife without tactile stimulation and is there any problem with my penis?
Dear DKG,
You have a problem of \"Premature ejaculation\".
This problem is easily treated with certain behavioral modifications like \"stop start technique\" or by use of medications,a few hours prior to sex.
The length of your penis is normal and the earlier you stop worrying about it the better it will be for you.
Kindly contact a psychiatrist for personal guidance.
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| I am suffering from early ejaculation and hence not able to satisfy my partner. What are the remedies?
Dear Krishna,
Your problem of premature ejaculation is a common one. This problem can be tackled by use of simple techniques like the squeeze method and stop-start method, check them out in our sex and sexology section. The other way to handle the problem is to consult a psychiatrist who could prescribe you medications to delay the ejaculation.
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| what are the symptoms of ghonnoria and what are the medicines and doses for treatment of the disease.pl answer.
Thank you for responding to us. Your query is been directed to an expert and shall be answered shortly.
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| I want to do sex with girls how do i talk about it to girls which i dont now show i just stand nude in front of them ..
Thank you for responding to us. Your query is been directed to an expert and shall be answered shortly.
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| Please let me know how to satisfy my wife at the time of ovolution i.e 14th day of cycle. That day I think more about it and psychologically unable to do the intercourse. Rest of the days its ok.
Your query suggest that you want to have safe sex during the period of ovulation. The best way to do so is to use condoms, which however have a failure rate of 1%. The only other way in which you can satisfy your wife is to reach her to an orgasm without actually having an intercourse (eg. oral sex, or clitorial stimulation).
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| What are water-based lubricants ? Can you specify a brand or place where i can find one ?
Thank you for responding to us. Your query is been directed to an expert and shall be answered shortly.
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| I recently got married. It was a love marriage and she is 3 yrs elder to me.We used to have pleasure through foreplay before marriage. But after marriage she finds it difficult to have an orgasm because she gets discomfort during intercourse. She also has a mental block that she will have a lot of pain. I get angry as I cannot enjoy too.Please help me to bring out the best in us.
This is a common problem for newly married couples. You will have to show patience as any negative reaction will only worsen matters.
You will require to meet a psychiatrist for detailed guidance, however some tips could help:
1)Brush aside the disspointments of the recent past. You can't have sex with tension in the air.
2)Increase period of foreplay. As lubrication will be optimal thus making intercourse easy.
3)If lubrication continues to be problem, use lubricated condoms.
4)Consult a gyenacologist as local infections can cause pain and can be treated completely.
5)Finally do not allow this to affect your married life in general. Love & compassion will help in the long run.
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| I am not getting full erection as before. Can it be bad ? What is the remedy ? I am a sensuous person and am not enjoying absence of full erection.
Many thanks for the question. It is perfectly fine to be sensuous at your age. However to expect an erection as one has in the younger age is illogical. One has to accept that with ageing the physiological changes will affect various parts of the body including the gonadal hormones and organs.
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| we are having problem in having child.The main reason being semen volume and high mortality of sperms.
I am also a diabetic.Please sugguest medicine for increasing volume and have low mortality.Awaiting your reply.tks
Thank you for responding to us. Unfortunately there is no definite medicine for increasing the quality and quantity of sperms. It is advisable that you consult a gyenaecologist who specialises in artificial inseminisation as they could isolate the viable and healthy sperms from you and artificially insert them when your wife is most likely to ovulate. This will make it possible to have a child, something that seems to be a priority for you.
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| what is the ideal size of an erect penis?
Thank you for responding to us. There is no ideal size of an erect penis. If the penis is sufficiently long to enter the first third of the vagina, it is possible for both partners to achieve sexual gratification. It is important to note that even a partially erect penis is suffiecient for a intercourse.
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| Please help me with some tips to have longer sex period with partner. I get tired immediately after ejaculation which happens just after 3-5 minutes of sex.
Thank you for responding to us. Your problem is that you get premature ejaculation. There are techniques like the stop-start and squeeze methods that you may want to use (visit our site for details). Alternatively, you may get guidance on these techniques from a psychiatrist who may also be in a position to prescribe you medications (to be taken few hours prior to sex) that delay ejaculation.
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| I masturbate 4 -5 a week. Will it affect my sexual life after marrage. I havent't had sex with any girl yet.
Thank you for responding to us. At the frequency you mention masturbation will in no way affect your physical, mental or sexual life before or after marraige. Its perfectly fine if you have not had sex yet, there is no reason to feel bad about the same.
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| Sir, from the last six months,I stimulated my girl friend breast alternatevely.we both enjoy this feeling, but her breast size has been increasing. we want to know that this practice can create any type of breast problem,
dieases,child feeding,or any type of sex problem or not.If it does not create any type of problem than it mean that we can enjoy this practice.Thanks.
Thanks for the query.
There will be no ill effects of your current practice and you may continue to indulge in the same.
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| I have been married for 9 yrs now
Me and my wife are sexually very active
and normally want to have sex 2-3 times
per session. However, I have a problem
that after the first time I get distracted
and cant get aroused and have an erection quickly
Also, even if I get an erection it is not full
I am not fully aroused and am terribly distracted
Also, I take a very long time to have my ejaculation
some time I dont at all and both me and my wife loose
interest after some time. My wife normally gets
aroused after the first intercourse and I feel that I
am not satisfying her the second and the third time
Pls advice. My wife is also 33 yrs. We have 2 children.
Also, even though I am married I regularly masturbate every
day, does it have anything to do with the above problem.
Awaiting your advice.
Thanks
GG
Masturbation has nothing to do with the above problem. It is natural for men to not get sufficiently aroused a second time after immediately after the first orgasm. While women do not seem to have a problem. The only way out is to have a time gap between two turns or bring your wife to orgasm without through stimulation (clitorial)rather than an intercourse.
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